Are you considering hiring a San Francisco matchmaker?

Dating can be tricky no matter where you live, but if you live in a major urban region such as the Bay Area, finding romance can be especially difficult.

San Francisco is one of the most male-dominated areas in the US with more than 20,000 more single men than women. This gender disparity makes SF a woman’s paradise but a man’s gauntlet. The bustle of SF paired with the gender imbalance are just a couple of reasons why you might be considering enlisting the help of a matchmaker. 

The art of matchmaking has been around for centuries, ever since a feminist Benedictine monk named Gratian introduced the concept of consent into marriage through law. The goal has always been to pair two singles together that the matchmaker finds to be compatible. 

There’s just one issue with this practice. 

There’s no point in introducing a man to a compatible woman if he has no idea how to communicate or interact with her. 

Our unique matchmaking-coaching service gives men the tools they need to be highly successful with the women we pair them with. 

Even if you think you have the skills to flirt with any woman, you might still have problems meeting them. As we know, SF is one giant sausage fest. Teaming up with a matchmaker ensures that you’ll find single, compatible women to date. 

5 Reasons to Hire a San Francisco Matchmaker (& coach)

1. Coaching + Matchmaking = Winning

There’s little point in referring a friend for a position when they don’t have the skills needed to ace the interview. 

Many a matchmaking company will set men up with awesome women only for the guy to slip up on something potentially unknown to him. We don’t send our guys into the field without the proper preparation. 

That’s why we pair matchmaking with our private or group coaching program. 

The first few dates are the most delicate period of time during your nascent relationship. If you make one wrong misstep, she may just decide to find a better way to occupy her time.

When you have so little positive history to fall back on, you need every interaction to go your way. If the first date is poor because you awkwardly touched her, kept talking about yourself, or didn’t make her feel safe, then she’ll refuse to ever date you again. 

We teach singles the dating skills they need to form a bond, make a woman safe, and continue to see the compatible women we set them up with. 

If you don’t feel like you need the coaching, you can always seek out a San Francisco matchmaker that doesn’t require coaching to be matched up. The issue with these matchmaking services is that they usually don’t work. How do we know? – well, we tried it. 

Back in 2013, we offered matchmaking services to single men that didn’t attend weekly coaching sessions. Some succeeded, but the majority didn’t even score a second date.

We realized that there’s little sense in sending a man up to the plate when he doesn’t know how to swing a bat. With weekly coaching sessions, you’ll learn what it takes to become a dating maven. 

2. Some SF Matchmakers Charge a Small Fortune – We Don’t

How much would you pay for love?

Some matchmakers know just how much a man will dish out for the chance to date hand-picked suitors. 

The Millionaires Club for one has packages that start at 45k a year. 

Many San Francisco matchmaking services (I’ll keep them un-named) start at $25k. 

As expensive as these programs are, you’re not even guaranteed to find lasting love. That’s where we come in. 

Not only is our matchmaking service more pocket friendly than many others, but the benefits you receive through our program don’t dry up the minute it ends. MM services for example end as soon as your membership expires. However, when you revamp your dating life with us, we equip you with dating skills you’ll be able to use long after your membership ends. 

That’s the benefit of pairing matchmaking with coaching. After three months you won’t need to rely on anyone else to help you mine dates or give you date advice. You’ll have all the skills you’ll need to date at a high level for the rest of your single days – which most likely won’t last long. 

3. You Won’t Get Antsy with Weekly Coaching Calls

Typically, a MM client will wait and wait until their romantic overlords toss them a date or two. Read the fine print before signing up with any Bay Area matchmaking service. Some don’t even promise a date a month, others will promise such a rate at best. 

Waiting by the phone every Friday hoping your MM service will come through with a weekend date will drive you nuts. It’ll also unnecessarily increase tension. You’ve been waiting god knows how long for a date, all the while becoming more nervous. When a date finally arrives you’ll be too nervous to keep your cool. 

Weekly coaching sessions will help ward off nerves and prepare you for what’s to come. We’ll walk you through each phase of a date so that when the time comes you’ll be prepared and not act a fool. 

4. A Matchmaking Model Makeover

As far as dating models go, matchmaking is pretty archaic.

Things have changed drastically now that we’re in a digital age. While using online dating sites like Match.com and OkCupid used to seem taboo and even embarrassing, nowadays pretty much everyone uses online dating as a way to find potential matches.

Moreover, singles now approach the dating world with a more modernized mindset.

Matchmaking services simply aren’t conducive to modern dating rules and the way that busy San Francisco singles approach the romantic landscape.

Most MM services will use what’s called a “revolving database.” This means that they only will set you up with women within their closed network. We like to think that there are plenty of fish in the sea, but when a MM refuses to look outside their network they’re effectively shrinking the size of the dating pool.  

Our method is different in that we don’t just set you up with a handful of women from a narrow dating database. Rather we use a team of e-recruiters who scour the net for our matchmaking clients. We find single women that are in your area that we believe are compatible. 

To ensure that your match is who they say they we run a background check on all potential any woman we set up with a client. We also screen all women ahead of time via a Zoom meeting. 

5. We’re All About Preparation

As I’ve mentioned before, matchmaking involves a lot of waiting around for your matchmaker to set you up on a date. Sometimes those dates can be few and far between. When you actually do go on dates, you’re not equipped with expert strategies from your matchmaker.

With a dating coach, you have someone who is continually advocating for your success. A good dating coach is one who will be by your side throughout each step of your dating journey to ensure that you are experiencing personal growth that ensures you find your right match.

And if you sign up for a coaching program through emlovz, you’ll be able to exercise your dating approach consistently through a strategy known as MegaDating.

What is MegaDating?

MegaDating is a dating process that involves dating several people at the same time in order to diffuse energy by keeping your social calendar full.

When you MegaDate, you avoid settling for the mediocre or chasing after “the one.” Our strategy shows you firsthand that there are plenty of fish in the sea.

This is the main strategy I used during my 100-date experiment. I didn’t use any type of matchmaking service during this experiment.

However, I took advantage of several other modes in order to rack up tons of dates so that I found myself meeting a variety of new and interesting men each week. These modes included things like:

• Online dating

• Friends of friends

• Social gatherings and events

• Activities with people who shared my interests. There are tons of opportunities to connect with people who share your interests that are available through friends and websites like Meetup.com, Facebook and/or Eventbrite. A simple Google search

• And more ideas on where to meet singles in San Francisco

MegaDating will undoubtedly result in dates, but in a place like SF you don’t want to solely rely on any one method for finding Mrs. Right. 

Matchmaking services will still ensure that you’re meeting women that you’re compatible with. MegaDating can be a full-time job, and if you don’t do it right you could invest time and money into dating sub-par women.

With MM you’ll be set up with women that have been vetted and primed for a date without putting in any work. That’s right, you can put your feet up, recline and wait for the dates to come rolling on in. 

That is until you go on the date of course. That’s the best part about pairing matchmaking with coaching. We won’t leave you hanging once we set you up on a date.

With a comprehensive dating system at your back, you’ll have all aspects of the dating scene addressed and taken care of – including a list of the best San Francisco date ideas for you to select from. 

To get started, book a 1-on-1 Zoom session so that we can open the discussion and learn more about how we can help you achieve your romantic goals.