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Matchmaking & Coaching by Emyli

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Signature Program: What to Expect

A matchmaking + coaching (group or private formats) program for men who want to get better at dating and find a girlfriend in just 90 days. Work with me in regular sessions and a tried and tested curriculum to help you overcome obstacles and get results.

The goal of the Signature Program is to get you MegaDating fast! MegaDating is the emlovz approach to keep you from settling for mediocre love. Maintain leverage, increase confidence, and diffuse your energy by dating multiple women at the same time. MegaDating is your first step toward getting dates with women who are actually exciting to you.

The Signature Program is the only San Francisco Bay Area Matchmaking Service that offers a complete dating solution for men looking to get into a relationship within 90 days.

Is this you?

Are you struggling to get quality women to respond to you on dating apps? Don't have enough time, or just tired of mining for dates on apps? Having trouble getting dates offline? Does it feel like it’s impossible to get any dates at all? Are you finding yourself repeatedly in the friend zone with women you’re interested in dating?

Do you find yourself wondering if you could do better than the women you’ve been going on dates with? Are you confused about how to even attract the type of women you’re REALLY interested in? Perhaps you’re tired of the dating scene and ready to find your wife or life-partner once and for all? Maybe you’re starting to think you can’t attract beautiful women because of your background.

Well, I’m here to tell you that you deserve the perfect partner and you can find and attract the woman of your dreams–and I can help you do it. If you’re smart and hard-working, then my coaching and matchmaking services might be right for you.

My Signature Program Includes

A blend of coaching and matchmaking - which is proven to help you reach your dating goals 300% faster. The coaching portion of my program includes twelve private or group coaching sessions with me, held over a 3 month period (one session each week). Our sessions will be held virtually over Zoom. The program begins with using your relationship history to craft your ideal girlfriend profile. You’ll learn what attracts certain types of women to you, how you can stop choosing women that aren’t a fit for you, and much more.

The matchmaking portion of my service includes 15 guaranteed first dates over a 6 month period. My team of expert recruiters and I will qualify and interview dozens and dozens of women for you. When there's a suitable match, we'll let you know the day and time to be ready for your Zoom first date introduction. Never be late to a date with our text and email reminders.

During our weekly coaching sessions we'll first break down all of your matchmaking dates and see which women you'd like to continue dating. We'll also train on a myriad of dating subject such as date development, social strategy, online dating, first, second, and third date blueprints, and much more. This will lead us into creating a full 360 degree strategy to ensure you get the maximum amount of dates with the best quality women.

So that you're successful on all your dates, I’ll help you curate the perfect first, second, and third dates. We’ll also discuss the very important “between date communication” so your dates never lose interest in you.

Once you’ve mastered my first, second, and third date blueprints, we will focus on the selection phase of MegaDating to ensure that you maintain leverage on your dates and stop settling for mediocre love. This will naturally allow you to choose the woman that fits best in your life.

FAQ

We’re the only service that pairs matchmaking with coaching. So, in addition to getting hand delivered suitable matches & first dates, you’ll be coached along the way. 

For coaching, you’ll have the option of 12 private or group based sessions held weekly for the first 3 months of your program. For support in between your sessions, if you opt for private coaching — you’ll have access to email support. If you opt for group coaching, you’ll have access to the emlovz Slack channel for support. 

Another point of consideration is that traditional matchmakers have no incentive to coach or train you. The longer you fail, the more they get paid. Our goal is to help you reach your goals in 90 days. Period. 

Lastly, we consider our service to be a “modern” solution. We don’t rely on a stale “database” to set you up on dates. Each client receives his own ongoing, intensive search.

The most successful athletes in the world had coaches by their side the entire way. Maybe they didn’t need the help. I suppose you could argue that point. But if that’s true, then why were the coaches there every step of the way? 
 
Consider baseball. Professional baseball players have a variety of coaches. There’s hitting coaches, pitching coaches, base-stealing coaches, infield coaches, and outfield coaches. Aren’t these professional athletes already at the top of their game? Maybe. So what’s the point of having so many coaches?
 
The answer is that raw talent is not the same as a refined skill. Raw, undeveloped talent, often fails to deliver positive outcomes. It’s like having a tool in your tool belt that could do the job if you only knew how to operate it. Dating coaching is very similar. 
 
The coaching process takes any under-developed interpersonal skills and optimizes them so you can crush your dating goals. Coaching also helps to identify weaknesses and create strategies for overcoming the barriers that have held you back from love in the past.

Absolutely. What if ninety days from now, you were dating several women (or even in a very new relationship) that you were really excited about? What is the likelihood you’ll get there if you base the next three months on the last three months? If you see a clear vision of a very different future relationship in the next ninety days, then what is your plan to get there? A dating coach & matchmaker can help you build a step-by-step strategy to reach your goals. 

Finding real love takes time and effort. Think about how much time you put in to finding your current job or graduating from college. Would you consider either of those things more or less important than finding true love?

Without being taught how to date in school, how can you know that you’re doing a good job? How can you ensure that your dating formula is set up correctly? That the steps you’re following now are leading you down the path to Mrs. Right? Can you be sure? Did you have strong role models growing up? I know I didn’t, and I would not have found love without a specific, measurable, achievable, realistic, and timely dating plan.

Yes. My private Signature Program clients can send me two emails per week or a total of 24 emails throughout the program. My group coaching clients are given access to the emlovz Slack channel. That way, if questions arise between sessions, you’re covered.

Yes, we will train on messaging in-depth over one of our 12 coaching sessions.  

Here’s my internal reviews page where you can read what some of my previous clients have to say about working with me. 

I’ve worked with men from 18 to 80 years old. You can master dating at any age. As long as you’re willing to put in the work, I’m happy to be your coach and matchmaker, and I’m confident I can help.

For best-case results, I recommend completing the Signature Program in three months. If you’re in a hurry, I’m happy to discuss creating a custom program with you during our New Client Session. Adding matchmaking to your Signature program is also a solution. 

I work with clients who understand the value of having someone in their corner to push them, to provide a practical dating framework, and to share insights into what’s happening with particular partners and situations while they are on their dating journey. Similar to sports coaches, who exist most importantly at the elite athletic level, I work with people who understand that to be the best and attract the best, they must continually push the envelope to improve.

For you to find real, lasting love, you have to prioritize the learning of how to find and keep love. You have to spend time and energy on it. You have to confront uncomfortable obstacles and step outside your comfort zone. 

While everyone feels committed on January 1st, most lose their motivation by January 21st. The same is true in dating. You are very likely to experience the same phenomenon. So, what is going to guarantee that you get through it and achieve real, lasting success in love? Your commitment to yourself.

When you commit to changing your life, you need to protect yourself from failure when the going gets tough. Often, making a financial investment in yourself that is uncomfortable, can help to compel you to see yourself through obstacles to ensure your return on investment.

Do it anyway. It is scary to change and grow. But being alone, or in another toxic relationship that leads to divorce, is a lot more frightening. Be more afraid of what will happen to you if you don’t make a change. How long have you been trying to solve this problem on your own? What happens if you don’t solve it a year from now? Three years from now? Five years from now? How long will you keep repeating the same patterns that led you here? 
 
It is when you give yourself no other choice but to move forward, directly through the fear, that you make the most significant transformations. When you decide you’re going to stop avoiding that fear because you can’t get around it, you have to go straight through the fire. Yes, it may be harder than anything you’ve ever done, but do it anyway. Begin today, let’s crush your dating goals together because love is worth it, I promise. 

Henry Ford said this, “Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t, you’re right.”

If you’re going to fail, then I don’t want to work with you. But if you have even a glimmer of hope, then I can help. I work with men who crave love so much that they can’t imagine a life without it, and they won’t quit until they have it.  

Of course! As you can see I market my services to men, but we 100% work with women. The issue is marketing — it’s difficult to build a website and market to both genders. Feel free to book a new client session above to see if we’re a fit to work together.