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The #1 Overland Park Dating Coach For Men Looking for Love

The #1 Overland Park Dating Coach For Men Looking for Love

Overland Park is often confused with Kansas City just as Kansas City is often confused for being in Kansas (maybe it has something to do with the name?).

What can’t be confused is that Overland Park is a singles haven (for men at least).

I can hear the naysayers collectively groan, but it’s the truth.



You know why Overland Park and Johnson County as a whole are great for men? The overabundance of women. 

We all know that dating is a numbers game. Well, it turns out the calculations are in your favor.

When we take a look at Johnson County demographics, we see that women outnumber men in every age bracket over the age of 24.

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On top of this Overland Park has a population of just under 200,000 which booms to 570,000 if you include the other towns in Johnson County. And hey if you’re willing to extend your search into Missouri, you’ll have another 500,000 residents to add to the party.

What I’m trying to say is that you have romantic options.

Should you not vibe with one woman there are plenty of other women nearby.

But just because the dating pool is deep doesn’t mean you know how to swim.

That’s where your Overland Park dating coach comes in.

Your New Overland Park Dating Coach

We’ve established that Overland Park has dating opportunities. It’s also a great place to live and settle down. Niche reports that it’s the second-best city to buy a home in for a variety of reasons.

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But all these A marks don’t matter if you don’t have someone to share them with.

A quality Overland Park, Kansas dating coach knows how to help you meet women, court them, and turn that one special lady into a long-term partner.

So who is the best dating coach in town?

emlovz

We at emlovz have helped thousands of men find long-lasting love.

Unlike other dating coaches we’re comprised of an ecosystem of coaches, have created a community of men and coaches that support one another, and have a bonafide strategy and philosophy that shapes everything we do.

That philosophy is MegaDating.

MegaDating

Recently in our online community, a new student posted advice they were given by their cousin.

Their cousin told them to delete the apps, stop trying, and the universe will grant their wish of a long-term girlfriend.

They asked other Dating Decoded members what they thought of this advice?

It’s fair to say that our students have been indoctrinated into the emlovz philosophy. They (mostly) respectfully and strongly disagreed with this misguided cousin.

His advice is to let lady luck work her magic.

Our strategy is to take lady luck’s hand and hit the dancefloor. In other words, MegaDating.




MegaDating is a proactive dating approach that empowers students and teaches them how to create their own romantic luck.

Instead of a passive dating approach we teach men how to go on the attack.

MegaDating is a active and prolific dating style that sees most of our students go on at least 20 dates in 90 days. We’ve had students go on many more date than that. Naeem dated 31 women in 90 days. 

Dating around isn’t a sleazy ploy to court as many women as possible – we don’t teach men how to be libertines. Rather MegaDating is a shortcut to finding not just any partner but your ideal partner. 

By dating various women at once men are able to quickly figure out the type of woman they want to date. They can compare and contrast women until they’ve found their ideal partner. Not only this but going on various dates a week is wicked fun, sharpens your dating skills and of course boosts your confidence.

But if you’re struggling to find just one woman to date in Overland Park how can you realistically expect to date two dozen women in the next three months?

Leveraging Social Channels

Even if you’re working a 9-5 remotely, just moved to the area, and are an introvert, there are still plenty of ways to tap into social groups to meet women.

At emlovz we first have men create an ideal GF profile where they create an avatar of their ideal partner. They include everything from hobbies, to politics, to looks in their profile. Then we help men brainstorm where they might meet these women.

Our goal is to place you on a crash course to meeting amazing women that you’re compatible with.

If you’re an athletic guy that loves the outdoors and staying in shape a few great places to meet women would be:

These are just a few places you can expect to meet compatible women, but this is just the tip of the iceberg.



To meet women quickly, we teach men how to become expert online daters. As 40% of all new relationships start online if you don’t tap into this social channel, you’re missing out.

There are thousands of females using apps like Tinder, Hinge, and Bumble in your area.

But to meet them you’ll have to not only download these apps but create a profile that stands out.

If there are 10,000 female online daters in your area there are 30,000+ male users as well. It’s well known that men vastly outnumber women on dating apps. 

At emlovz we’ll teach you how to create a profile that stands out.

Via our online curriculum, weekly coaching strategies, and profile reviews, we’ll help optimize your profiles so that they outperform 90% of men on these apps.

We’ll do so by helping you snap and choose the right photos, write bios that speak to your ideal partner, help you properly use filters, respond to prompts, and link other SM accounts.

MegaMessaging + TDL

Once you’ve revamped your profile the matches will begin to roll in.

You’ll have so many matches you won’t know who to date first. But be warned, a match isn’t the same thing as a date. Chatting with a woman online is not a form of dating. Chatting online is the precursor to a date.

To convince a woman to meet you IRL you’ll have to have a conversation online, drum up a connection, and ask her out with a TDL.

The most difficult part of chatting with women online is having her respond to your first message.

The image below is a comparison of a man’s and a woman’s Tinder profiles a day after joining. As you can see the woman has received exponentially more online attention than the man. What I want you to focus on is the number of likes and matches she has.



If she’s receiving 32 messages every day, she’s most likely receiving at least 10 new messages on a daily basis.

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For her to respond to your message, it’ll really have to stand out.

We teach men how to send opening messages that demand responses.

HINT: Read her profile and ask her a question. 

After she has responded, we’ll teach you how to have a conversation that quickly builds a connection and how to use a TDL to ask her out. TDL stands for time, date, and location. You have to include these three pieces of information when asking her out.

Dating Blueprint

Not just any first, second, or third date will do.

When you’re MegaDating you don’t have time or energy to go on five-hour first dates with every woman you meet.

Here are some of the rules that we ask our Overland Park students to follow when dating.

First dates must be no longer than an hour with no more than $20 being spent. Never sign up for a date that lasts more than an hour with a stranger. Doing so may result in spending an entire Saturday afternoon with someone that you know after the first five minutes together that you’ll never see again.

Second dates should be free and active. Free dates ward off gold diggers. The active aspect is important because active dates are fun, novel, and allow you to more easily break the touch barrier.

Third dates are when you show her how special she is to you. If she makes it this far is means you two have something special cooking. Spend big, shower her with affection, and make it a date she’ll never forget.

Dating Decoded

Interested in learning how we here at emlovz can help you land your next girlfriend in the Overland Park area?



We teach our students the shortcut to finding their ideal match by MegaDating. MegaDating is our dating philosophy and it shapes everything we teach here at emlovz. Simply put MegaDating is dating prolifically with the specific goal of going on 20 dates in 90 days. This will give you ample women to compare and contrast so you can refine your not only your dating skills but who your ideal partner is.

To teach you how to quickly find highly compatible women in just weeks and become the most eligible bachelor in town you’ll have a team of romantic experts, each skilled in their own unique area to support you.

Our Team

  • Emyli (me), co-founder, curriculum developer, head coach, and I host two coaching sessions every week
  • Thomas, co-founder, and coach. He’ll lead the biweekly Man Cave event where men come together to talk dating, bond with one another, and support other single men
  • Cat, Brooke, and Audrey are mock date specialists. Go on a practice date with them (and receive feedback) before your next date
  • Hailey is your new stylist. She’s worked with celebs from every industry and is now about to raid your closet
  • Tilly is our holistic sex & intimacy coach. She’ll help you get the most out of your sex life so you and your partner are happier between the sheets
  • Aundrea is an award-winning fitness coach. Are you ready to eat right and build muscle?
  • Mia is our social media expert. Revamp your Facebook and Instagram profiles with her help and start meeting women online

Our Community

And look, we realize that the single life can be difficult. If accepted into our coaching program, Dating Decoded, you’d be joining a community of supportive men and coaches who are there to listen, support, and encourage you as you navigate the single life.

Our program offers every student a lifetime membership (as if you’ll need it) so the support won’t stop until you’ve found your ideal partner.

If you’re ready to find your forever partner, book a Zoom session with our team today. Together we’ll talk about your dating history, your goals and show you how our program, Dating Decoded, can help you find your ideal partner.

Learn how our students have already improved their dating lives.

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