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A private, one-on-one program for men who want to get better at dating and eventually find a girlfriend. The goal of the Signature Program is to get you MegaDating fast! MegaDating is my unique philosophy to dating. I believe it helps men maintain leverage and avoid settling for mediocre love. The definition of MegaDating is ‘to date multiple women at the same time to diffuse energy and increase confidence.’

MegaDating is your first step towards getting more dates with women you’re REALLY excited about. It’s your first step to STOP settling for women you’re not excited about so you never have to experience divorce or dissatisfaction in love.

Hi,
I’m Emyli.

What to Expect..

Coaching

We offer 3 month private & group coaching programs for men who want to get better at dating and eventually find a girlfriend. Work with me in weekly 50 minute Zoom sessions and a tried and tested curriculum to help you overcome obstacles and get results.

The goal of the Signature Program is to get you MegaDating fast! MegaDating is the emlovz approach to keep you from settling for mediocre love. Maintain leverage, increase confidence, and diffuse your energy by dating multiple women at the same time. MegaDating is your first step toward getting dates with women who are actually exciting to you.

Matchmaking

We offer full-service date concierge style matchmaking services for those who are ready to meet and date their most compatible partners right away.

Our date concierge services include a personal matchmaker, a 50 minute onboarding session, six or twelve 100% pre-vetted and interviewed matches, pre and post date coaching, a date booklet, and Slack/email support.

What to Expect..

Coaching

Matchmaking

We offer full-service date concierge style matchmaking services for those who are ready to meet & date their most compatible partners right away.

Our date concierge services include a personal matchmaker, a 50 minute onboarding session, 100% pre-vetted and interviewed matches, pre and post date coaching, a date booklet, and Slack/email support.

How I Can Help You

I’m here to teach, motivate, and strategize with you.

Through our free content, or my paid 1-on-1 coaching program - we’re here to help you reach your dating and interpersonal goals.

Whether you’re new to dating, looking for love, a marriage, or a simple companion - I’m here to help you reach the highest levels of your potential, even if you don’t believe you can!

With Love,

Is This You?

Are you struggling to get women to respond to your messages on online dating sites and dating apps? Don't have enough time, or just tired of mining for dates on apps? Having trouble getting dates offline? Does it feel like it’s impossible to get any dates at all? Are you finding yourself repeatedly in the friend zone with women you’re interested in dating?

Do you find yourself wondering if you could do better than the women you’ve been going on dates with? Are you confused about how to even attract the type of women you’re REALLY interested in? Perhaps you’re tired of the dating scene and ready to find your wife or life-partner once and for all? Maybe you’re starting to think you can’t attract beautiful women because of your background.

Well, I’m here to tell you that you deserve the perfect partner and you can find and attract the woman of your dreams–and we can help you do it. If you’re smart and hard-working, then our services might be right for you.

How The Services Work

Coaching

Twelve private or group coaching sessions, held over a 3 month period (one session each week). Our sessions will be held virtually over Zoom.

The program begins with using your relationship history to craft your ideal girlfriend profile. You’ll learn what attracts certain types of women to you, how you can stop choosing women that aren’t a fit for you, and much more

Next, we’ll cover Date Development and Social Strategy. This includes where to meet women who are most compatible with you, learning about some of the best alternatives to online dating, discussing ways to start conversation with women, learning non-awkward in-person approach techniques that work, and much more.

Then we’ll begin our in-depth coverage of using dating sites/apps to get dates. During these sessions I will give you my expert feedback on your pre-existing dating profiles and photos, and/or help you create a brand new dating profile from scratch. Together, we'll craft compelling messages to the women you're actually attracted to. We’ll also discuss the problems you’ll encounter if you SOLELY rely on dating apps/sites to meet women. This will lead us into creating a full 360 degree strategy to ensure you get the maximum amount of dates with the best quality women.

When you’re ready to date the women you’ve attracted, I'll help you curate the perfect first, second, and third dates. We’ll also discuss the very important “between date communication” so your dates never lose interest in you.

Once you’ve mastered my first, second, and third date blueprints, we will focus on the selection phase of MegaDating to ensure that you maintain leverage on your dates and stop settling for mediocre love. This will naturally allow you to choose the woman that fits best in your life.

Matchmaking

Our full-service matchmaking program guarantees to set you up with 6 or 12 highly compatible matches over a 2-4 month period - but most of the time much sooner! Are you wondering what “full-service” means?

It means we do an intensive search for each & every client. This involves my team of matchmakers, recruiters, and I sourcing over 250 potential matches for you, qualifying 50 of them, interviewing 15 to 30, and setting you up with the 6 or 12 we feel would fit the best into your life.

FAQ

The most successful athletes in the world had coaches by their side the entire way. Maybe they didn’t need the help. I suppose you could argue that point. But if that’s true, then why were the coaches there every step of the way?

Consider baseball. Professional baseball players have a variety of coaches. There’s hitting coaches, pitching coaches, base-stealing coaches, infield coaches, and outfield coaches. Aren’t these professional athletes already at the top of their game? Maybe. So what’s the point of having so many coaches?

The answer is that raw talent is not the same as a refined skill. Raw, undeveloped talent, often fails to deliver positive outcomes. It’s like having a tool in your tool belt that could do the job if you only knew how to operate it. Dating coaching is very similar.

The coaching process takes any under-developed interpersonal skills and optimizes them so you can crush your dating goals. Coaching also helps to identify weaknesses and create strategies for overcoming the barriers that have held you back from love in the past.

We’re the only service that pairs matchmaking with pre & post date coaching AS WELL AS giving you the opportunity to add a full 3 month coaching program to your matchmaking package. So, in addition to getting hand delivered suitable matches & first dates, you’ll be coached along the way.

If you’d like to add a coaching program to your matchmaking package, you’ll have the option of 12 private or group based sessions held weekly for the first 3 months of your program.

Another point of consideration is that traditional matchmakers have no incentive to coach or train you. The longer you fail, the more they get paid. Our goal is to help you reach your goals in 90 days. Period.

Lastly, we have a strong background in recruiting, and like to consider ourselves “love headhunters.” We don’t rely on a stale “database” to set you up on dates. And we certainly don’t rely on pairing you up with other paying clients. Each client receives his own ongoing, intensive search.

Absolutely. What if ninety days from now, you were dating several women (or even in a very new relationship) that you were really excited about? What is the likelihood you’ll get there if you base the next three months on the last three months? If you see a clear vision of a very different future relationship in the next ninety days, then what is your plan to get there? A dating coach can help you build a step-by-step strategy to reach your goals.

Without being taught how to date in school, how can you know that you’re doing a good job? How can you ensure that your dating formula is set up correctly? That the steps you’re following now are leading you down the path to Mrs. Right? Can you be sure? Did you have strong role models growing up? I know I didn’t, and I would not have found love without a specific, measurable, achievable, realistic, and timely dating plan.

Wouldn’t you agree that the process of attracting the perfect person, keeping the relationship healthy, and ensuring that you don’t settle for less than you deserve, takes time, dedication, and hard work?

I offer a variety of in-person options for my Signature Program clients, including mock-dates, weekly coaching sessions, and an eight-hour 1-on-1 workshop. My fees adjust for these in-person options – and I’m happy to explain in further detail during our introductory New Client Session. Keep in mind that I live/work in San Francisco, so if you’re not local, you’ll need to plan on flying into SF to meet me.

I work with clients who understand the value of having someone in their corner to push them, to provide a practical dating framework, and to share insights into what’s happening with particular partners and situations while they are on their dating journey. Similar to sports coaches, who exist most importantly at the elite athletic level, I work with people who understand that to be the best and attract the best, they must continually push the envelope to improve.

For you to find real, lasting love, you have to prioritize the learning of how to find and keep love. You have to spend time and energy on it. You have to confront uncomfortable obstacles and step outside your comfort zone.

While everyone feels committed on January 1st, most lose their motivation by January 21st. The same is true in coaching. You are very likely to experience the same phenomenon. So, what is going to guarantee that you get through it and achieve real, lasting success in love? Your commitment to yourself.

Do it anyway. It is scary to change and grow. But being alone, or in another toxic relationship that leads to divorce, is a lot more frightening. Be more afraid of what will happen to you if you don’t make a change. How long have you been trying to solve this problem on your own? What happens if you don’t solve it a year from now? Three years from now? Five years from now? How long will you keep repeating the same patterns that led you here?

It is when you give yourself no other choice but to move forward, directly through the fear, that you make the most significant transformations. When you decide you’re going to stop avoiding that fear because you can’t get around it, you have to go straight through the fire. Yes, it may be harder than anything you’ve ever done, but do it anyway. Begin today, let’s crush your dating goals together because love is worth it, I promise.

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Dating Coaching & Matchmaking Services

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I’m Emyli.

What to Expect..

Coaching

Matchmaking

What to Expect..

Coaching

Matchmaking

How I Can Help You

Is This You?

How The Services Work

Coaching

Matchmaking

FAQ

Learn how one of our dating experts can help you today!

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Dating Coaching & Matchmaking Services

Reach Your Goals. Get Started Today.

New Client Session

Signature Program: What to Expect.

Hi, I’m Emyli.

What to Expect..

Coaching

Matchmaking

What to Expect..

Coaching

Matchmaking

How I Can Help You

Is This You?

How The Services Work

Coaching

Matchmaking

FAQ

Learn how one of our dating experts can help you today!

Hi,
I’m Emyli.