Montana is the best place in the country to find love… if you’re a cow.

And I don’t mean that in a derogatory sense. Montana literally has twice as many cows as it has people. If you’re a cow and you’re single, Montana is the place to be – but what if you’re a human?

That’s when things get a little tricky.

Every year WalletHub ranks the best and worst states to be single in. In 2023, Montana came in at 41, ranking lower than states like Oklahoma, Idaho, and even South Dakota.

The reality is that Montana isn’t as romantically barren as WalletHub (or you) make it out to be. To find and fall in love with a partner as beautiful as the state they resides in, you just need a little help.

That’s why I’d like to introduce you to the best dating coach in Billings, Bozeman, Great Falls, and every other city and town strewn across Big Sky Country.

Best Dating Coach In Montana

To find a partner in Montana, you need to be aware of your surroundings and face the facts.

Montana is sparsely populated. Sure, it has a million residents, but they dot this massive state rather than congregate in one place (unless it’s for the Montana State Fair).

That means more than anything, you need to be an expert at finding singles to date and quickly shacking up with your ideal partner before they’re taken.

At emlovz, we specialize in giving our students the tools to meet a wealth of singles in a short period of time, date them, and ultimately choose the most compatible partner.

To learn the tricks of the romantic trade you’ll team up with the best coaches in all of Montana.

Let’s meet the team.

Your New Dating Team

Emyli – Co-founder & Lead Coach

Emyli’s journey started in 2011 when she went on 102 dates in a year. During this journey she learned the ins and outs of dating. She learned how to meet singles, build a connection, weed out incompatibles, tactfully let someone down, and everything else you’d want to learn to get what you want in this modern and rapidly changing dating scene.

Emyli and her team teach men and women how to navigate the Montana dating scene. 

Emyli is the one who designs the course curriculum, will help address your most pressing dating needs, and also heads up weekly live coaching sessions.

Thomas – Co-founder & Lead Coach

Tom is the yang to Emyli’s yin.

He provides the male perspective to help solve the conundrums of modern dating.

Tom’s the one who allows women to crawl around inside his head so they learn how men think. As far as men go, he’s the one who teaches them the male’s perspective from a hunter’s perspective. Tom also leads a biweekly Man Cave event to give men the chance to talk about whatever is on their minds. He knows dating can be a lonely experience. The Man Cave is a chance for men to bond, learn, and vent.

Whenever you have a query, Tom is usually the first one to hook you up with a tailor-made solution.

Darshil – Dating & Confidence Coach

Darshil was a young padawan no so long ago.

He joined emlovz as a student in 2023 but quickly learned the way of the romantic force.

Now he uses his newfound skills as a romantic Jedi to help men and women that were in his shoes not so long ago.

This is how Darshil can will help you out:

• Date location strategy
• Romantic escalation
• Date conversation framework
• Profile optimization
• Confidence building
• Mock dates for women

Audrey – Dating Coach & Mock Date Specialist

You can learn everything there is to learn in our program, but if you’ve never gone on a date before that first date still may be a disaster.

To get the most from out in-date teaching you’ll want to practice prior to a date.

That’s where Audrey comes in. She’ll go on a practice date with our male students where they can apply everything they’ve used in the program. After the date she’ll provide you with a list of things you did well and others you could improve on.

She also teams up with Emyli for Conversation Practice. It’s here men get a chance to chat and flirt with women in a safe space.

Mia – SM Expert

In today’s smartphone-obsessed world you are who you present yourself to be.

That means if you don’t have an IG or you only have three photos and 27 followers you will be devalued.

It sucks, but you can either roll with it and optimize your SM or stick to letting your Auntie hook you up with the nice singles that frequent her pickleball club.

If you go with the latter, Mia will revamp your profile so that you’re putting your best foot forward.

Tilly – Holistic Sex & Intimacy Coach

Everybody wants mindblowing sex, but wanting and getting are two different things. 

Everyone talks about the gender wage gap but not the gender orgasm gap. But women and men are struggling sexually. Tilly helps people of all genders get the most out of their sex lives. She does this by using practices inspired by the Taoist and Tantric arts, somatic healing, psychotherapy and a variety of coaching modalities.

Want to have the best orgasm in your life? Tilly knows how.

Aundrea – Fitness Coach

We all know that the prettiest person in the room tends to get what they want.

While Aundrea helps you become that person by creating a comprehensive fitness and dietary program, she does so much more than give you toned abs.

Through her coaching Aundrea imbues men and women with the sense of self worth they need to confidently get out there and date. Sure, we all love an attractive person, but what we love even more is self-confidence.

So how exactly do these coaches all come together to help the singles of Montana find love? 

It all starts with MegaDating.

MegaDating

Guaranteed that the dating coaches in Bozeman don’t know a thing about MegaDating. That’s because it’s our own unique philosophy that we use to help students find not just any partner, but the perfect one.

So what’s in this special sauce?

MegaDating is a proactive dating approach that sees you date various singles simultaneously.

Gone are the days of dating one woman for six months before you two tire of each other. This slower version of speed dating exposes you to various singles in a short period of time. In this way, you can compare and contrast the people you date, figure out your ideal type, and take a shortcut to find your ideal partner.

Plus the fact that the more you date the better at dating you become. 

But by now, you’re probably asking, how in the world will I find these singles?

Even the biggest metro area in Montana, Billings, only has a population of around 190,000 people.

Chances are you live in a smaller city or town with even fewer residents. Yet despite the size, I guarantee you there are single people in your age range that you want to date.

In our program, Dating Decoded we teach men how to tap into their social circles in order to mine for dates.

This means meeting people through work, friends, at parties, at the gym, at religious gatherings, co-ed sports clubs, etc.

It also means learning how to leverage dating apps to meet singles.

In a few states, dating apps are used to meet singles more important or useful than in a sparsely populated state like Montana.

With a dating app you can thousands of single people in your area. It’s true that depending on where you live you may need to widen your search radius. Dating apps make that easy by allowing you to search for singles within 100 miles of where you live. This is a great tool to utilize if you need in a small town.

Dating apps are like singles bars that are open 24/7.

You just need to learn how to use them.

The Perfect Dating App Profile

40% of all new relationships start online.

It’s by some distance the most popular way to meet fellow singles.

But just because it’s the trendy way to meet people doesn’t mean it’s easy.

Men outnumber women on dating apps more than livestock outnumber humans in Montana.

On Tinder there are 9 men for every 1 woman. With numbers like those, you’ll need a trick or two up your sleeve to stand out. If you’re a woman, you’ll need a strategy to quickly weed out incompatible men.

Luckily, weeding out men and optimizing dating profiles to meet more women is what we do best.

When we team up you’ll quickly learn the ways of online profile perfection.

You will learn how to snap and choose the right photos, understand which dating apps are best for you, and how to fill out your profile in full so that you stand out to the lovely ladies of Montana.

Time after time, our students outperform 90% of other profiles online. And they need to if they want to be noticed. Whereas now you may receive a match every month, your matches will significantly increase after we revamp your profile and introduce the new and improved online version of you to the ladies of Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge. 

MegaMessaging + TDL (Men Only)

After you’ve teamed up with the best dating coach in Billings, you will quickly optimize your online dating profiles. As a consequence, you’ll have matches galore.

But a match isn’t the same as a date. A match is nothing more than romantic potential. To tap that potential, you’ll have to pivot away from the dating app and into the real world.

But not everyone has such a skill.

Convincing a stranger you met online to spend her downtime with you isn’t easy.

It takes care, skill, and yes even the help of a professional.

At emlovz we’ll teach you how to craft the perfect opening messages, how to quickly build mutual attraction, and of course how to convince her to go on a date with you.

You’ll also learn how to use a TDL (time, date, location) to ask her out.

Dating Blueprint

MegaDating is a juggling act.

Imagine going on dates with multiple people every week. How would you even manage such a social agenda?

We’ve created dating rules for the first three dates. 

When you’re dating prolifically, you need a system that can help you maximize your dating experience.

That’s why we advise our students to adhere to the following rules:

First dates should be under and hour with no more than $20 being spent. Look, first dates are essentially blind dates. You may dislike the person the second you meet them. Don’t sign up for a 4-hour date with a stranger. Make it quick, make an assessment and get out of there.

Some ideas include:

• Grabbing a coffee/beer at a cool spot they’ve never been to
• Hitting the dog park
• Mini golf
• Bowling
• Plan a date close to her home/work that revolves around an interest of hers

Second dates should be 100% active and free. Free dates ward off gold diggers, while active dates are novel, fun, and usually make it easy to break the touch barrier and really bond with your date.

Some ideas include:

• Going on a hike with your dogs
• Yoga
• Art walk
• Picnic
• Bike ride through a park
• Fishing

Third dates are reserved for people you’re super into. Most romantic interests will not make it this far. If they do, it means you’re really into them. If so, make it a night to remember. Ditch the financial and time restrictions and just focus on having an amazing night.

Dating Decoded

We teach our students the shortcut to finding their ideal match by MegaDating. MegaDating is our dating philosophy and it shapes everything we teach here at emlovz.

Simply put MegaDating is dating prolifically with the specific goal of going on 20 dates in 90 days. This will give you ample potential partners to compare and contrast so you can refine not only your dating skills but also who your ideal partner is.

To teach you how to quickly find a highly compatible partner in just weeks and become the most eligible single in town you’ll team up with romantic experts, each skilled in their own unique area to support you.

Our Team

• Emyli (me), co-founder, curriculum developer, head coach, and I host coaching sessions every week
• Thomas, co-founder, and coach. He’ll lead the biweekly Man Cave event where men come together to talk dating, bond with one another, and support other single men
• Cat, Brooke, and Audrey are mock date specialists for men. Go on a practice date with them (and receive feedback) before your next date
• Darshil is our mock date coach for women. Go on a practice date with them (and receive feedback) before your next date
• Hailey is your new stylist. She’s worked with celebs from every industry and is now about to raid your closet
• Tilly is our holistic sex & intimacy coach. She’ll help you get the most out of your sex life so you and your partner are happier between the sheets
• Aundrea is an award-winning fitness coach. Are you ready to eat right and get fit?
• Mia is our social media expert. Revamp your Facebook and Instagram profiles with her help and start meeting singles online

Our Community

And look, we realize that the single life can be difficult. If accepted into our coaching program, Dating Decoded, you’d be joining a community of supportive singles and coaches who are there to listen, support, and encourage you as you navigate the single life.
Our program offers every student a lifetime membership (as if you’ll need it) so the support won’t stop until you’ve found your ideal partner.
If you’re ready to find your forever partner, book a Zoom session with our team today. Together we’ll talk about your dating history, your goals and show you how our program, Dating Decoded, can help you find your ideal partner.
Learn how our students have already improved their dating lives.