The Best Ann Arbor Michigan Dating Coach for Men Looking for a Relationship

Ann Arbor is a great place to date — yes even if you’re an Ohio State grad.

It’s one of the most youthful cities in the nation with a median age of 28, is full of highly educated people due to the college scene as well as a bustling tech hub, and has a couple more thousand female than male residents.

It’s objectively a great place to be single, even if you’re not looking to date someone of college age.

But just because it’s been ranked one of the best cities for singles doesn’t mean you’re having your way with the dating scene in Ann Arbor Michigan.

Pew Research found that in 2019, 75% of singles found dating very or somewhat difficult within the last year.

You’re not alone is feeling the struggles of dating.

Which is why you’re on the lookout for an Ann Arbor dating coach.

Your New Ann Arbor Dating Coach

Your new coach should have a few things going for them including:

A bonafide philosophy
Clear teaching methodology
A proven track record of success

If the coach you’re looking at can’t showcase their wins, articulate what they believe in, and can’t teach what they believe, move on to the next one.

Your Ann Arbor dating coach should be able to teach you not only how to find and court a partner, but how to find and court your ideal partner.

With that said, let’s introduce you to your new coach.

emlovz

We at emlovz have been teaching men the ins and outs of modern dating for just over a decade. We know how to leverage off and online dating to find your ideal partner.

Lucky for you, you already live in an amazing city for meeting women. All you need to do is apply our lessons to find the perfect woman.

First, let’s dive into our philosophy.

MegaDating

Be honest with me.

How many dates have you been on recently?

How many women have you taken to the Michigan Theater to see a show or on a stroll down Main Street?

If your answer is one you’d rather not share, we understand. Many men come to us complaining that they can’t score any dates. That the reason they don’t have a girlfriend is because no one wants to take a chance on them.

At emlovz, we believe the best way to find your ideal partner isn’t just to date around, but to go on various dates a week with various women – we call it MegaDating.

If you’re tired of sitting around waiting for love to magically happen to you, try MegaDating.

It’s a proactive dating approach that sees you date a multitude of women at once like our student Naeem did when he went on 31 dates in 3 months (he’s now in a relationship).

MegaDating is like speed dating, but just a little slower and spaced out throughout the entire week.

We teach and encourage our students to go on so many dates because it:

Refines their dating skills
Boosts confidence
Helps them understand who their ideal partner is
Is a shortcut to finding their ideal partner

That’s ultimately what our goal is – helping you find your special someone ASAP.

But while this sounds good and all is it feasible – how do we do it?

The Perfect Profile

Like it or not there’s a damn good chance your next girlfriend is online right now.

Whether it be IG, Bumble, or one of the many other social media apps, I guarantee she’s there.

Of course, we teach men how to meet women IRL but we place a special emphasis on meeting them online. Doing so is easy, fast, and is the only way to rack up dates quickly. Refusing to use dating apps and SM to meet women puts you at a disadvantage.

More than three in ten adults have used online dating with that number going higher the younger the demographic. Most women you have met recently have at one time used the apps to meet their partners.

Now it’s your turn.

But just because it’s the most popular way to meet someone nowadays doesn’t mean it’s easy.

On Tinder there are 9 men for every 1 woman. On Bumble there are 7 men for every 3 women.

This means the women of Ann Arbor can be super picky with who they choose to swipe right on and chat with. With such a competitive romantic landscape you’ll need to create a profile that really stands out.

When you enroll in our dating program, Dating Decoded we’ll show you how to choose the right photos, swiping strategy, and how to write a proper profile.

You’ll learn the way of online dating via our online curriculum, weekly strategy sessions, private community, and via our in-depth profile reviews.

Once you’ve optimized your profile it’s time to get chatting.

MegaMessaging + TDL

Scoring a match feels like a win – and that’s because it is.

Tinder notifies you with their dopamine-inducing jingle and you open the app to find a beautiful woman that has signaled her interest. Awesome, but don’t celebrate just yet.

A match isn’t a date.

A match means nothing more than your profile convinced her to move her finger an inch to the right – that’s it.

To capitalize you need to chat her up and convince her to go on a date with you.

That’s the hard part.

But what makes it a lot easier is by learning the 1s and 2s of online communication. Lucky for you most of your competition sucks at talking to strangers online as demonstrated by the Tinder picture below.

Pew found that the majority of women have reported overall negative experiences with online dating. This is mostly because of the guys you see above who message the bare minimum. Women are bombarded by the same old same old every stinkin’ day.

They want a guy who shows genuine interest, reads their profile, and asks probing questions. They want men who can carry on a conversation without sounding like a creep, and who will ask them out on a proper date.

It’s really not that difficult.

We’ll show you how to send amazing opening messages, quickly build rapport online, and ask her out with a TDL.

TDL stands for time, date, and location, and it’s the only right way to ask a woman out. When asking her out, be sure to specific the aforementioned. Doing so shows her you put thought and care into creating an awesome date.

Once you have a first date it’s time to move onto the dating blueprint.

1st, 2nd, 3rd Date Blueprint

This is the most precarious period of your new relationship.

The first three dates will make or break the relationship.

That’s why you need to take proper care during these three dates.

To do so follow these rules.

For the first date you’ll want to go out with her for no more than an hour and spend no more than $20. You keep it brief to maintain mystery but also because you don’t want to sign up for a four-hour date with a stranger. There’s a chance you may not like her the moment you make eye contact. Keep things inexpensive because you’re going on a number of dates (if you’re MegaDating) and don’t have the money to spend $150 on every first date.

Second dates should be active and free (something you should easily be able to do in Ann Arbor). Free to ward away women that just want a free meal and active because active dates lend themselves to breaking the touch barrier and having dynamic conversations. No one wants to go on another coffee date where the conversation is manufactured rather than flowing organically.

If she makes it to a third date it means you two are clearly attracted to each other. If that’s the case take her out on a night to be remembered. Hit that swanky restaurant, see a show, and show her how much she means to you.

Teaching Methodology

Now that you know our philosophy, how will you learn from your new Ann Arbor dating coach?

There are four ways you’ll go about learning:

Online curriculum where you’ll learn in a self-paced fashion everything you want to know about dating
Weekly coaching sessions where we’ll dive into the nuances of your dating life
Online community where you have on-demand access to coaches and students
Mock dates where you can practice what you’ve learned

We also have a roster of coaches that will help you along the way:

Emyli leads coaching calls and created much of the content for the online curriculum
Tom leads the Man Cave, a biweekly event where men come together to talk about their dating lives
Tilly takes you through a customized session to help improve your sex life
Aundrea will crate a tailormade fitness and meal plan so you can get shredded
Mia will optimize your SM so you can stand out to women online
Hailey is a celeb stylist that will breath live into your style
Audrey, Cat, and Brooke are our mock date specialists that provide you with feedback after your date

We’re a community at emlovz. We not only help you get the most out of your dating life but are there for you when you need us.

When you join you become part of a community of supportive men and coaches that want the best for you.