So, you’re ready to start playing the field again. Luckily for you, the dating scene has changed quite a bit. Say goodbye to roaming the strip with your buddies and picking up single women at bars until 3 a.m. The dating scene has become more civilized since you were last single, especially when it comes to meeting single moms.
If you’re worried about the size of the dating pool, don’t be. There are approximately 10 million single mothers in the U.S. right now. It’s not a matter of there not being enough suitors out there; rather, it’s about finding the right one.
Let’s figure out which social channels you’ll need to tap into to find the right single mom for you.
Meeting Single Moms
PTA Events
As I mentioned, you probably won’t be finding your next sweetheart at a bar. A PTA meeting is the antithesis of a bar. Think about the women who attend PTA events. At no other event are you as likely to find women in such robust numbers. PTA events are primarily attended by women with children the same age as your child. Once you arrive, all you need to do is look for a ring to ascertain who’s single and who’s not.
Only a certain type of woman attends a PTA event—one that cares profoundly about the education of her children. PTA women seem to have a bad rap for being arrogant and pushy. The belief is that they use their influence to alter the school’s culture or programs. This may be true for some women, but for the most part, these events are attended by parents who simply care about their child’s education. If you also have a child, you might consider this to be an attractive feature.
If you’re new to the PTA scene, keep your cool. Conduct yourself in the same manner you would if you were entering a pool—slowly and cautiously. The PTA can be a pretty territorial space. Get to know people on an individual level before making your opinions known to the entire association. This way, you’ll also be able to build intimate relationships with certain members. Should you want to ask a fellow PTA member out, simply suggest getting coffee and talking about school matters.
Enroll Your Children In Youth Sports
This one is only possible if you have children. Hanging out at youth events without a child might give your future Mrs. the wrong idea. However, if you have kids, this is the perfect context for meeting women. Not only will you be able to meet other single parents, but you’ll also be supporting your child.
There’s no better way to bond with someone than by cheering on your kids while they compete on the pitch, court, or ice rink. It shouldn’t be too difficult to identify the other single parents in attendance. Showing up week after week will also ensure that you and your new beloved will gravitate toward each other. By the end of the season, you will have created a strong enough bond to ask her to see you outside of a Sunday ballgame.
Your exposure to single parents isn’t limited to game days. You’ll also see fellow single parents at practices and other team events. Be sure to show up early to every practice and game. If you want to see how she operates outside of a sporting context, suggest a playdate.
Meet Single Moms: Join A Gym Or Enroll In Fitness Classes
This is the beauty of being on the prowl for single women as a divorcee. Before, you might have gone to a club or bar to meet women. Nowadays, instead of meeting women at the price of killing your liver, you’re killing two birds with one stone. Joining a gym will not only make you fitter—thus increasing the odds of being noticed by a potential mate—but you’ll also put yourself on track to meet single moms.
While joining a gym and hitting the weights is one way to meet single mothers, the best way to do so is by enrolling in a fitness class. Gyms offer a variety of fitness classes, but the ones packed with women are likely to be yoga, spin, dance, and aerobics classes.
Meetup Groups
Along with signing up for a gym and enrolling in fitness classes, you can also attend Meetup group events. Meetup is an app where users meet in person to engage in certain activities. The most popular groups in San Francisco, for example, involve hiking, coding, meditation, and soccer. Meetup is active in all major cities and is a great way to meet people with interests similar to yours. It’s not unlikely that your city is home to a singles group. No matter how odd your interests might be, you’ll be able to find like-minded singles through the app.
Ask Friends
Your friends know you better than anyone else. They probably also know a woman or two that you’d be interested in. Why not ask your friends for potential partners? Your buddies will be more than willing to set you up with a friend or acquaintance of theirs. Naturally, your friends will filter out women who aren’t your type.
Join A Running Group
Maybe it’s just Instagram that’s making me think this is the go-to place to meet single moms, but it makes sense.
Running groups meet early, generally before or after the kids have been dropped off at school, are naturally social spaces, and are full of fit women.
There could be worse places to go looking.
Dating Applications
If you’re worried there’s no life after divorce for men, think again. Online dating and dating apps are hotter than ever. Online dating provides filters that can quickly narrow down your search and provide you with a pool of single women that meet your criteria.
Perhaps online dating still carries a stigma in your mind. This might be because, during your single days in your 20s, it was still looked down upon. However, the opinions of Americans have changed. Nowadays, more than 72% of Americans believe that a relationship that blossomed online is as valid as one that originated from an in-person situation.
Despite the newfound approval of online dating, many daters over 30 still complain about not getting results. This is most likely because they’re unfamiliar with online dating. Each dating app and website is designed with a certain user in mind. Tinder, for example, is perfect for singles between the ages of 18-24. Here are a few online dating apps that will help you meet single moms:
Hinge
Hinge is our clients’ preferred dating app.
It’s popular enough that you’ll find a deep well of users regardless of your city. The users on this app tend to be older, looking for serious relationships, and want to get off the apps as soon as possible.
Not to mention, you can use specific filters to meet the kind of woman you’re most interested in. If you want to meet single mothers, there’s a filter for that.
Bumble
Bumble is a favorite among our clients, particularly for its unique approach to online dating. The app empowers women to make the first move, which can create a refreshing dynamic in the dating process. It’s popular across a wide range of cities and has a solid user base that includes many people seeking serious relationships.
Bumble also offers various filters that help you narrow down your search, making it easier to connect with women who match your interests and criteria. If you’re looking to meet single mothers, Bumble allows you to set specific filters to find exactly who you’re looking for.
The League
The League is a top choice for our clients who are looking for high-quality connections. Known for its exclusivity, The League carefully screens its users to ensure that you’re meeting people who are driven, successful, and serious about finding a relationship. This app is particularly popular in major cities and attracts professionals who value ambition and education.
The League also offers advanced filtering options, allowing you to tailor your search to meet specific criteria. If you’re interested in meeting single mothers who share your values and lifestyle, The League’s precise filters can help you find the right match.
Hit The Dog Park
The dog park is as much a bonding place for humans as it is for their furry friends. Considering that you and everyone else there already have something in common, it’ll be fairly easy to strike up a conversation. The dog park is frequented by all kinds of people. If you own a dog, it’s likely you’ll eventually make it out to the park. You won’t find a torrent of women at the dog park, but if you spend a couple of hours there every weekend, you’ll meet a single mom or two.
Mani-Pedi
I wouldn’t be surprised if it took you a second to realize what a mani-pedi is. It’s not often that a man spends a Sunday afternoon getting his finger and toenails done. At first glance, this may seem like an odd place to meet women. But going to a nail salon ensures that you’ll meet women. Who knows if they’re single or not, but you’re more likely to meet single moms here than in just about any other spot on a Sunday afternoon.
Speed Dating
Before attending a speed dating session, make sure that the event caters to single parents. Call ahead and confirm that only single moms and dads will be participating. Of all the ways to meet single moms explored in this article, this is the only method that guarantees you’ll meet various suitors who match your criteria in a short period of time. It may feel like a contrived way to meet people, and you might be thrown out of your comfort zone, but everyone else at the event is in the same boat as you. If you’re serious about finding new love, this might be the best option for you.
Co-Ed Sports League
Let’s be frank. It’s doubtful that you and your partner will be placed on the same dodgeball team.
But a co-ed sports league is a network. Your interactions won’t be limited to those on your team. Co-ed leagues have a much more fraternal atmosphere than non-co-ed leagues. It’s not uncommon to build relationships with members of the opposing team. Your chances of meeting someone don’t end when the final whistle is blown. The whistle signals the end of the sporting event but the beginning of the bar crawl. Throw on your sneakers, pick up a ball, and show off your athletic ability as you engage in the age-old dance of attracting a mate through physical prowess.
Consult With A Dating Coach
Interested in learning how we at emlovz can help you find single moms?
We teach our clients the shortcut to finding their ideal match through MegaDating. MegaDating is our dating philosophy, and it shapes everything we teach here at emlovz. Simply put, MegaDating involves dating prolifically with the specific goal of going on 20 dates in 90 days. This will give you plenty of women to compare and contrast, helping you refine not only your dating skills but also your understanding of your ideal partner.
To help you quickly find highly compatible women in just weeks and become the most eligible bachelor in town, you’ll team up with romantic experts, each skilled in their own unique area to support you.
Our Team
- Emyli (me), co-founder, curriculum developer, head coach, and I host two coaching sessions every week.
- Thomas, co-founder, and coach. He’ll lead the biweekly Man Cave event where men come together to talk dating, bond with one another, and support other single men.
- Brooke, and Audrey are mock date specialists. Go on a practice date with them (and receive feedback) before your next date.
- Darshil is a confidence coach, wingman, and all around great guy to have on your team. Once student, now a teacher he knows what you’re going through and how to get the most from your dating life.
- Hailey is your new stylist. She’s worked with celebs from every industry and is now about to raid your closet.
- Tilly is our holistic sex & intimacy coach. She’ll help you get the most out of your sex life so you and your partner are happier between the sheets.
- Renee is our anxiety dating coach. As a licensed therapist she knows the steps needed to turn you into a cool, calm, and collected dater.
- Mia is our social media expert. Revamp your Facebook and Instagram profiles with her help and start meeting women online.
Our Community
And look, we realize that the single life can be difficult. If accepted into our coaching program, Dating Decoded, you’d be joining a community of supportive men and coaches who are there to listen, support, and encourage you as you navigate the single life.
Our program offers every student a lifetime membership (as if you’ll need it), so the support won’t stop until you’ve found your ideal partner.
If you’re ready to find your forever partner, book a Zoom session with our team today. Together, we’ll talk about your dating history, your goals, and how our program, Dating Decoded, can help you find your ideal partner.
