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The 3 Best Toronto Dating Coaches

The 3 Best Toronto Dating Coaches

Ahh Toronto, that Canadian city that Americans always think of as theirs but in reality is way too cool for the U.S.

This is the city we’ll put under our dating magnifying glass today.

Popularized by Vince Carter and Drake, Toronto is one of the most dynamic cities in North America, yet only recently has it received the attention it’s deserved.



Drake’s rise to fame and the recent achievements of the Raptors have got millions of North Americans talking about The 6.

That chatter doesn’t stop when it comes to Toronto’s dating scene.

Toronto’s single scene certainly lives up to the hype.

But hype doesn’t always lead to dates.

A favorable gender ratio and an abundance of entertainment options are secondary ingredients when it comes to a thriving dating life. They don’t account for much when you can’t score a date.

That’s why in addition to digging into Toronto’s dating scene we’ll also detail the best dating coaches in Toronto.

So stop running through the 6 with your dating woes and hook up with one of these coaches.

The Best Dating Coaches In Toronto

Any dating coach worth working with has a philosophy, tried and true teaching methods, and reviews.

Don’t enlist the help of a dating coach until you’ve reviewed these three elements.

With that said, let’s talk about the three coaches that are even giving Cupid a run for his money.

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emlovz isn’t a big fan of letting the universe find a partner for you.



The universe doesn’t root for any single individual. Instead of collecting dust as you wait patiently for that fairytale moment when you lock eyes with your partner from across the ballroom and immediately fall for one another, it’s time to take a more proactive approach.

That approach is called MegaDating.


MegaDating is the practice of going out with various women at once.

That’s right, I’m talking a lunch date with Stacy Tuesday, a sunset stroll with Becca on Thursday, and a soccer game with Andrea on Sunday.

The point of dating women simultaneously isn’t so you can brag about your dalliances to your friends. Rather, we use this as the foundation of our coaching program because this is the quickest and most effective way to find a compatible partner.

Most men enroll in our program because they suffer from a scarcity complex. They think that it’s damn near impossible to find someone. They haven’t gone on many dates recently and feel compelled to cling to the first woman that looks their way.

Our dating philosophy shows them that there are plenty of women out there and that there’s no need to settle.

But just how do we teach these men to MegaDate?

Four-Pronged Approach

We use four learning pathways to teach our clients everything they need to know about dating in Toronto.

  • Online Curriculum
  • Exclusive Online Community
  • Weekly Strategy Sessions
  • Mock Dates

We realize that not only does everyone learn differently but that no everyone has time to sit down for an hour to chat with a coach every week.

That’s why we’ve created a program that offers various learning pathways and enables clients to learn when it’s most convenient to them.

Online Curriculum

Our e-learning platform allows single men in their 30s, 40s, and 50s to learn how to date in 2022 in a self-paced style.



The video series includes 31 lessons covering 7 different topics.

Lessons cover a wide range of areas. We discuss in depth everything from first date guidelines, the best way to ask a woman out, and even sexual escalation.

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Online Community

Dating while you were young was a blast. You’d go on a ton of dates, have experiences bad and good, and share those wins and losses with friends.

That’s not the case anymore.

You may have found that your closest friends have already partnered up.

It may seem like no one can identify with your relationship status, but there’s an entire community of men just like you out there.

Our clients are men all nearly between the ages of 30-50. When you enroll in our Dating Decoded program you gain lifetime access to our private client only online community. It’s here that you’ll be able to talk, strategize, and bond with men that know exactly what you’re going through.

While our community is chiefly an online one, members have been known to get together in person.

Weekly Strategy Sessions

Nothing can every really replace a conversation.

To get into the nitty gritty of a topic you have to delve into it via a live chat.



That’s what group enrollees have the chance to participate in twice a week with yours truly.

It’s during these coaching calls that you can ask questions about your dating life (anonymously if you choose) and receive detailed responses.

Our coaches will also share new findings, address questions posed in the online community, and examine romantic exchanges that clients have had in the field.

Mock Dates

There’s no substitute for practice.

This is what mock dates offer clients.

It gives them a chance to apply everything they’ve learned in our Dating Decoded program and weekly strategy sessions

So how do they work?

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You’ll go on a 30-60 minute virtual date with one of our coaches.

In it you’ll act as you would on a regular date.

Afterwards our coach will provide you with detailed feedback on what they liked and what might need improvement.

If this seems like a lot, no worries, we also offer matchmaking services.



It should be noted that our Dating Decoded program is exclusively for men.

Learn more about how we transform our clients’ dating lives by checking out our reviews. 

Psych Therapy

Psych Therapy uses therapy to revamp your dating life.

PT is a Toronto-based therapy company that offers therapy sessions on everything from anxiety and assertiveness training to cognitive behavioral therapy, and of course dating.

When you team up with Psych Company they promise to:

  • Make dating enjoyable
  • Help you attract the right kinds of people
  • Deal with commitment issues
  • Become more emotionally available

What’s so great about this therapist-based romantic coaching program is the multitude of ways in which you can interact with them.

The company offers IRL and virtual counseling along with personal workshops.

Psych Company also has three locations for your convenience.

Barbara Santen

Barbara exclusively coaches women who are looking to radically change their romantic prospects via groundbreaking methods.

Barbara offers one 12-month personalized program.

This program includes:

  • 2 monthly 1-on-1 Zoom calls
  • M-F access via the Voxer application
  • Access to Facebook group that contains weekly FB live sessions

So what exactly does Barbara teach to young females looking for love?

When you enroll in her program you’ll:



  • Clarify your vision of what you want most in a relationship
  • Move past blind spots
  • Address stress
  • Develop tools to nourish self-care
  • Create an actionable dating plan

Barbara boasts a certification in Applied Positive Psychology and has worked as a coach for 15 years.

Dating in Toronto Involves Knowing the Facts

Toronto By The Numbers

How quality of a singles city a municipality is can largely be defined by its gender ratio.

All and all Toronto has a pretty even gender ratio. However, if we look closer we see a delightful disparity that favors single men.

If you’re looking for a single woman in your 30s, you’re in luck. In the Toronto metro area, there are 361,000 men and 400,000 women. That’s a pretty sizeable difference.

Those numbers change however if we look at the 20-something demographic. It’s here that men outnumber women by about 4,000. Such a minor difference shouldn’t lead to women being pickier about who they end up with like we’d see in male-dominated cities such as San Francisco and San Jose.

And it’s not like that difference can’t drastically change in a matter of years. Toronto is the fastest-growing city in all of Canada and the U.S. Last year it added 127,575 to the metro area. That’s 60,000 more people than the country’s second fastest-growing city of Montreal.

There are two reasons for such an increase.

One is Canada’s favorable immigration policy. More and more immigrants are migrating to Canada instead of the US (for obvious reasons). Most immigrants choose to relocate to Toronto. Of the aforementioned new residents 45,742 of which were immigrants.

Diversity

Homogeneity is dull, especially when it comes to dating.

Luckily, Toronto is the most multicultural city in the world — at least that’s what BBC Radio said in 2016.

It’s been given this title mostly because 51% of the population is foreign-born. In the Toronto area, you’ll find people from 250 ethnicities speaking more than 170 languages. 16 countries have a diaspora of over 50,000 people in the Toronto area. The most robust presence comes from China, India, and the Philippines. The city also has more than 100,000 immigrants from the UK, Italy, Jamaica, and Pakistan.

Canada but in particular, Toronto is widely known as a super tolerant city that welcomes and finds space for foreigners regardless of their country of birth.



What does that mean when it comes to dating?

In 2011, half of the marriages that year were between someone born in Canada and a foreigner. This number is expected to keep rising as more immigrants enter the country and as dating perspectives continue to become more progressive and accepting.

While you may find it difficult to penetrate certain ethnic groups, you’ll have no better opportunity to date someone from another ethnicity or country than when living in Toronto.

Here diversity reigns supreme and it isn’t odd at all to see an interracial couple walking down the streets, taking their kids to school, or at a Raptors game.

Toronto Date Ideas

Many a media outlet has ranked Toronto as one of the best singles cities in Canada.

It continues to get high ranks because of its many entertainment options.

Before we write out a litany of awesome dates ideas for you and your future date, let me explain how the initial dating period works, date by date.

First dates should last no more than an hour and no more than $10 should be spent.

Why?

Well if you’re doing it right and MegaDating — more on that later — that means you’re dating multiple women a week. Look you don’t have the time, funds, or patience to blow big money on every first date. Only invest in a woman once you know she’s a match. Why buy a 3-course meal for some Tinder chick that effectively is a complete stranger?

With that in mind some awesome first date ideas in the Toronto area are:

Second dates should be 100% and active.

Look some ladies are just looking for a quick bite to eat and a decent conversation — nothing more. To weed these ladies out you’ll want the first two dates to be relatively cheap. A date requiring zero money being spent almost has to take place outdoors and be active.

Here are three entertaining ideas that satisfy those requirements:

Look if you absolutely have to spend money go ahead. If the dates going well and you want to keep it going by getting a drink somewhere, fine. Just don’t go into a date planning on spending big.

If she’s special enough to make it to a third date it’s time to open up your wallet. The financial and time restriction are finally lifted and it’s just up to you to enjoy yourself with a lady you’re clearly into. When planning the date it’s important that you pick a date spot that’s close-ish to your house. By the time a third date rolls around you should be planning on getting buns.



Keep that in mind when planning a romantic third date:

  • Battle Sports
  • Hammam time baby
  • Get your own room at Bar + Karaoke
  • Get tipsy and dance to a DJ at the Royal Ontario Museum on Friday night

Feel free to mix, match, and combine third date ideas. It’s most likely that you’ll be taking her out on a Friday or Saturday night. She may not be content with merely dining out and then heading home at 9 p.m. Make sure you have multiple spots you want to hit, all of which are more or less close to your abode.

Dating Apps in Toronto

Regardless of how you feel about them, dating apps are in and they will be for the foreseeable future.

39% of all heterosexual couples that got together in 2017 did so with the help of a dating app. They are now the most popular way to meet new singles.

That being said, while on the hunt for love in Toronto, it’s wise to be on five dating apps. This is the magic number. No, you don’t have to spend hour on them every day. Treating online dating like a second job will lead you to detest it.

The reason you should be on Bumble, Hinge, Tinder, Match, and another app of your choice is because each app caters to different users. Match is more so for oldies while Tinder is for those looking to shag and run.

With Match being the most popular dating app in Canada it might be best to start your journey off there.

What Now?

Now it’s time to get dating in Toronto!

Book a 1-on-1 introductory session via Zoom with myself or a member of our team today so that we can learn more about each other.

We’ll discuss your dating goals, what needs to be done to reach them, and determine if Dating Decoded is right for you.

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