Boston dating coaching

PROGRAM FOR MEN

Best-in-class dating coaching program for men ready to find love. 

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WHAT TO EXPECT

Learn how to MegaDate

Go on 1-2 dates a week with Boston women you're really excited about.

Unlimited Coaching + Curriculum

Best in class data-driven curriculum paired with unlimited coaching plus a vibrant local community.

Lifetime Membership

Get coaching & support until you found your ideal partner, girlfriend, or long term partner.

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WHAT TO EXPECT

Learn how to MegaDate

Go on 1-2 dates a week with Boston women you're really excited about.

Unlimited Coaching + Curriculum

Best in class data-driven curriculum paired with unlimited coaching plus a vibrant local community.

Lifetime Membership

Get coaching & support until you found your ideal partner, girlfriend, or long term partner.

Book a Call
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WHAT TO EXPECT

Learn how to MegaDate

Go on 1-2 dates a week with Boston women you're really excited about.

Unlimited Coaching + Curriculum

Best in class data-driven curriculum paired with unlimited coaching plus a vibrant local community.

Lifetime Membership

Get coaching & support until you found your ideal partner, girlfriend, or long term partner.

HOW IT WORKS

Weekly Coaching Calls

Meet with Emyli every week in live coaching calls to strategize on any step of your dating journey.

Online Curriculum & Workbook

Extensive online curriculum that walks you step-by-step through everything you need to know to find the perfect partner for you.

Private CLient Community

Get coaching & support in between the live coaching calls in our private client community.

Private Coaching w/ My Expert Team

Book private sessions with our celebrity stylist, intimacy coach, mock date expert, anxiety coach, or anyone else on our team.

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IS THIS YOU?

Have you been to more Sox games than have gotten matches dating apps? Does it feel like the dating scene is rigged against you? Even when you do score a date does it feel like you land in the friend-zone rather than the end-zone?

You have questions and we have answers. We know how brutal the dating scene in Boston can be. It’s dynamic, women are choosy and it’s difficult competing against a backdrop of Harvard grads and tech-bros. 

Sure finding the perfect partner is difficult, but it’s worth it. You my friend have what it takes to find your ideal woman. You just need a little guidance. That’s where we come in. 

JOIN OUR BOSTON COMMUNITY

Our programs feature a lifetime membership that provides unlimited coaching and support, along with a dynamic community of Boston men who are on a similar journey.

Meet up in person with fellow clients in the Boston area and forge lifelong friendships.

Partner up with an accountability buddy or pod to share your journey and hold you accountable to your romantic goals. 

Our programs feature a lifetime membership that provides unlimited coaching and support, along with a dynamic community of Boston men who are on a similar journey.

Meet up in person with fellow clients in Boston and forge lifelong friendships.

Partner up with an accountability buddy or pod to share your journey and hold you accountable to your romantic goals. 

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Our Unique Approach

Join the #1 Boston dating coaching program for men that’s dedicated to helping you find a long term partner in record time.

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FAQS

If you’re MegaDating, we recommend going on first dates that last no longer than an hour and cost no more than $20. With that in mind here are some of our favorite first date ideas for Boston:

  • LimeRed Teahouse
  • Stroll Along The Esplanade
  • Skating on Frog Pond (Winter Only)
  • The Museum of Fine Arts
  • The ICA

It depends on who you ask. Women might tell you it’s difficult because men outnumber women and that men here have high standards. Men might tell you the same about women. The reality is that Boston is a dynamic city where it’s easy to meet women from all walks of life. Sure you may feel like she’s dating around, but you should be too. It’s easy enough to meet an incredible woman in Boston if you know where to look. 

You also need to have patience. People in Boston are busy. Chances are you’re pursuing a busy woman with a fulfilling professional and social life. You may need to wait your turn to spend time with her. 

About 52% of Bostonians are female with 48% being male. Females outnumber males in just about every age bracket. Whether you’re in your early 20s or early 40s there are still a few thousand more females than males in your age group. This favorable gender ratio makes Boston a great place to be a single male.  

We recommend the big three for finding love in Boston: Hinge, Bumble, and Tinder. Download all three to maximize your chances of finding love. 

For Boston-themed dating apps, we recommend: Fourplay, Lola, and PreVue. 

I’ve been a dating coach for guys ever since I completed my 100-date experiment in 2012. Since then I’ve been strategizing with men like you every week on how they can attract their ideal partner.

Since then my team and I have helped thousands of men find love. 

emlovz isn’t just one person, it’s an entire team of dating consultants and experts working relentlessly towards one goal: finding you an unbelievable partner.

Our dating coaches offer perspectives from both male and female points of view. Our coaches are also millennials as well as Gen-X and Gen-Zers. We know how to help you speak with women regardless of their age, background, or love language. We’re both online dating coaches that will teach you the way of the swipe, but also teach you the IRL dating skills you need to know.

Our program, Dating Decoded includes:

  • Live Weekly Coaching Calls Twice A Week
  • Mock Dates
  • Robust Online Curriculum
  • The emlovz workbook
  • Private Coaching Sessions with anyone on our team
  • Accountability Buddies & Full Social Network

But perhaps most importantly, we won’t abandon you after a set period of time like other coaches. Enrolling in Dating Decoded means you’ll have access to our program (and coaching) for life

We’ve spent over 10 years refining our program to help you go from a dating novice to a confident man so popular with women he’ll have to turn dates away.

Upon joining Dating Decoded, you’ll seamlessly connect with a vibrant social network comprising hundreds of other clients. In addition, you’ll have the opportunity to join an accountability pod in most major metros, where our students gather for real-life meetups and support. As you can see, we’re not just a program….but a massive network of high achievers.

We’ve worked with men from as young and green as 18 to as seasoned and hopelessly romantic as 80. You can master dating at any age, as long as you’re willing to put in the hard work and have the right coaches to guide you.

Our program is designed to help men of any and all ages, so long as they’re interested in finding a long-term partner.

We give unlimited profile reviews (at least one a month) as dating is an experiment, you’ll have to optimize as you go. Tweaking a profile every few weeks will help you appeal to the type of women you most want to attract.

We’re not about single sessions – we’re in it for the long haul. That means creating a meaningful and lasting transformation, not just dishing out some quick tips so you can get a couple more Tinder matches.

You tell me.

Do you have an ounce of hope and 30 minutes a day to put the work in?

Then yes, dating coaching will work for you.

Our most successful clients are open to trying new things and are coachable.

That may mean stepping out of your comfort zone. It means really listening and absorbing our advice and applying it over and over again.

Our techniques have worked for thousands of men, why wouldn’t they work for you too?

It all starts with a 20-min onboarding call Audrey or another member of our team.

During this call we’re going to get to know each other better and show you how to get the most from our program, Dating Decoded.

That means showing you how to access the weekly strategy sessions, gain access to our online community, and show you how to use our online learning platform.

We use a multi-pronged approach to turn our clients into expert daters.

Here’s how.

Community

No one wants to go through the dating process alone. So don’t. We have a community full of men just like you. To make being single suck less we set students up with an accountability buddy so you can embark on this journey with someone who knows exactly what you’re going through. We’ll also introduce you to clients in your area so you can meet up in person and build an IRL community. Our community is great for sharing wins and losses, bonding, and getting real-time feedback on any dating question you might have.

Online Curriculum

We’ve learned a lot since we became men’s dating coaches 10+ years ago. To effectively teach everything we’ve learned, we created an online learning platform that covers just about every romantic topic under the sun. From how to nail a first date so she says yes to a second, to how to have better sex, if it’s something you’ll face while dating we have a lesson about it. This curriculum is self-paced and constantly being updated and added to.

Mock Dates

Wouldn’t it be amazing if after a date you could ask a woman what she thought and actually receive honest feedback? That’s where our mock dates come in. After a mock date (either online or IRL) you’ll receive feedback on what worked and what needs improvement.

Weekly Strategy Sessions

We know how dynamic and nuanced dating is. That’s why twice a week you’ll have the opportunity to get coaching & feedback directly from me (live, uninterrupted).

Bi-Weekly Man Cave

Our Man Cave event is led every other Thursday evening by our co-founder and coach Thomas Anthony. We know how difficult it is to be a single man. You’ve got a lot to deal with. Sometimes you just want a place to vent and share your frustrations with other men in your shoes. The Man Cave is a space where our clients can simply talk about what’s on their minds. They can share, empathize, and get in touch with other men in the same position. Men’s groups are proven to reduce isolation, frustration, depression, and loneliness.

Dating Decoded VIP is for clients that want a little extra help. When you sign up for our VIP program you’ll receive everything we’ve already touched and more.

Specifically, you’ll receive six 50-minute 1-on-1 sessions that can be used for the following:

  • Mock dates with Brooke or Audrey
  • 1-on-1 coaching with Emyli or Thomas
  • Profile reviews with Audrey, Darshil, or Emyli (me)
  • Style session with Hailey
  • Social media optimization with Mia
  • Confidence session or NYC strategy session with Darshil
  • Anxiety session with Renee
  • Sex & intimacy session with Tilly

     

Use these six sessions in whatever way you think would most benefit you.

That means if you want to go on six mock dates with our dating expert Brooke, go ahead and do so (just don’t fall in love!).

If this is the case, start by watching our program overview video first. For most men, watching this video is all it takes to determine if our program is the right fit for them.

You can also take a look at our brochure.

Click this magic link to schedule your intro call with a member of our team.

Hell yeah they have. But don’t take our word for it, just hear how their love lives have improved since joining our program. 

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