How to Save Your Marriage Without Your Wife Buying In
A marriage is a partnership. It’s a team comprised of two players: you and your wife. So naturally, you’d think in order to save your marriage, you both need to contribute. Here’s the thing. You can’t force your wife to change. You can’t force her to go to couples therapy, or to spend more time […]
How To Attract Your Wife Even If The Romance Is Gone
If I were to plot out attraction on a graph, it wouldn’t look like a perfect diagonal line, forever ascending. You’ve been in a relationship for a while now, so you know that attraction comes and goes. It hits a plateau and is followed by a series of peaks and valleys. Every relationship starts off […]
6 Signs That She Doesn’t Love You Anymore
The only way to fix a relationship is to know what’s wrong with it. I know it can be terrifying to even entertain the question of whether your partner still loves you, but it’s essential if you want to have any chance of salvaging the relationship. And look, just because a partner is falling out […]
Flipping Separation Anxiety In Your Relationship On Its Head
Dogs aren’t the only ones who get separation anxiety when their loved one leaves for the day. If you’re connected at the hip with your partner, long spells away from them can cause a fair bit of anxiety. While it’s normal to miss your partner when they’re away, anxiety caused by their programmed absence is […]
Women Don’t Want to Date or Be In a Relationship With Nice Guys
When I say that women aren’t attracted to nice guys, I’m afraid that your first thought is to become an alpha male, start riding a motorcycle, and negging the woman you’re into until she falls for you. If the diagnosis is being too nice of a guy, the cure isn’t to swallow the red pill […]
How Fighting Can Save Your Marriage
To prove this isn’t clickbait, let’s bring in the researchers. After watching 500 couples discuss conflict, researchers found that couples who argue effectively are 10 times more likely to have a satisfying relationship than those who completely avoided talking about the issue. I should stress that the keyword here is effectively. Arguing for arguing’s sake […]
What is Stonewalling In a Relationship And How to Fix It
Have you ever had a conversation with your partner where it feels like you’re talking to a brick wall? You’re making your opinion known, voicing your concerns, talking about your wants and needs and there she is, stone-faced. Completely unresponsive, as if she’s been sedated by a horse tranquilizer. Sure, she’s there, but she’s not […]
The 7 Unconventional Keys to a Successful Marriage
You’ve heard all the conventional marriage advice before haven’t you? You know to never go to bed angry at one another, to not let finances get in the way, to listen to your partner, and, of course, before you even think about cheating, hit the confessional and say 10 Hail Marys. Yet despite this, about […]
Relationship Conflict: Turn Heated Exchanges Into Healing Turning Points
Regardless of who started it, the real cause of the continuing conflict between us lies elsewhere. Which is why, as strange as the following insight may seem at first, the importance of working to see the truth of it simply can’t be overstated: Despite any appearance to the contrary, it’s not our partner, nor is […]
Odd Dating Habits From Around The World
Love is a universal emotion, but how that emotion is pursued differs from culture to culture. Walk to the end of the earth, take a detour in Asia, put a blindfold on and walk back. In every single country, state, and town you will have stepped in, love can be found. Yet while romantic love […]