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what is consummate love

Let’s face it – we live in a world of fairy tales. When we are growing up, we see Disney movies and see all sorts of movies that depict “perfect love.”

Then we become adults, experience relationships of our own, and reality hits us in the face. Maybe this “perfect love” is just something that exists in the movies. Or is it?

Is there such a thing as perfect love? Is it a myth or … Keep Reading

afraid to be alone

Is it really love, or are you just afraid to be alone? As a dating coach, I’ve worked extensively with single men as well as those who are in serious relationships. When something feels off about your relationship, it’s important to take inventory of what might be going wrong.

In my experience, I’ve seen many couples suffering due to a fear of being alone. Even when the relationship isn’t working out, when you’re afraid … Keep Reading

life after divorce for men

So, is there really life after divorce for men? Of course there is!

Maybe you saw it coming, but many men don’t. For some, it completely blindsides them because they didn’t even really know anything was wrong in the marriage. I’ve known many men who fall into this category.

Even if it wasn’t a surprise for you, and even if you wanted it, divorce is always a sad ending because no one ever shows up … Keep Reading

why did she push me away

“Why did she push my away?”

It’s really difficult to feel a wall go up when you’re dating someone. After spending time and connecting, you’re suddenly blindsided by an icy demeanor. What happened? There are several possible answers to the question, “Why did she push me away?”

If you want to know the answer to your specific situation — especially if you’re in a hurry — head over to my calendar and book a 1-on-1 … Keep Reading

how to break up with your girlfriend in person

Breaking up is never easy, even if the relationship has long run its course. If you’re wondering how to break up with your girlfriend in person, you’re not alone. Having the big “breakup conversation” and taking the proper steps following that conversation (exchanging of things, etc.), can create a great deal of anxiety.

However, even though a breakup is likely unpleasant no matter how you approach it, it doesn’t have to be terrible. Below are … Keep Reading

when to breakup with your girlfriend

Wondering when to break up with your girlfriend?

The choice to break up with someone is a difficult and painful one. Even if you’re feeling unhappy in your relationship, it’s scary to let go of somebody you’ve become intimate with. Nobody chooses to become exclusive with a partner if they expect the relationship to fall apart. But when the foundation of your relationship becomes fractured beyond repair, it’s time to move on.

So when is … Keep Reading

love without trust

What’s love without trust?

Trust and communication are two things that are integral to building a healthy foundation in a relationship. For this reason (along with many others), you can’t have love without trust. Trying to have love without trust is like building a house on sand. The foundation of your relationship will always be on shaky ground. Thus, any relationship that lacks trust eventually crumbles.

Below are seven specific reasons you can’t have love … Keep Reading

relationship conflict

Regardless of our certainty as to whether we or our partner starts or rekindles a quarrel, the real cause of the continuing conflict between us lies elsewhere. Which is why, as strange as the following insight may seem at first, the importance of working to see the truth of it simply can’t be overstated:

Despite any appearance to the contrary, it’s not our partner, nor is it we who strikes the first blow in any … Keep Reading