LOS ANGELES dating coaching

PROGRAM FOR MEN

Best-in-class dating coaching program for LA men looking for a girlfriend, wife, or long-term relationship. 

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WHAT TO EXPECT

Learn how to MegaDate

Go on 1-2 dates a week with Los Angeles women you're really excited about.

Unlimited Coaching + Curriculum

Best in class data-driven curriculum paired with unlimited coaching plus a vibrant LA community.

Lifetime Membership

Get coaching & support until you found your ideal partner, girlfriend, or long term partner.

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WHAT TO EXPECT

Learn how to MegaDate

Go on 1-2 dates a week with Los Angeles women you're really excited about.

Unlimited Coaching + Curriculum

Best in class data-driven curriculum paired with unlimited coaching plus a vibrant LA community.

Lifetime Membership

Get coaching & support until you found your ideal partner, girlfriend, or long term partner.

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WHAT TO EXPECT

Learn how to MegaDate

Go on 1-2 dates a week with Los Angeles women you're really excited about.

Unlimited Coaching + Curriculum

Best in class data-driven curriculum paired with unlimited coaching plus a vibrant LA community.

Lifetime Membership

Get coaching & support until you found your ideal partner, girlfriend, or long term partner.

HOW IT WORKS

Weekly Coaching Calls

Meet with Emyli every week in live coaching calls to strategize on any step of your dating journey.

Online Curriculum & Workbook

Extensive online curriculum that walks you step-by-step through everything you need to know to find the perfect partner for you.

Private CLient Community

Get coaching & support in between the live coaching calls in our private client community.

Private Coaching w/ My Expert Team

Book private sessions with our celebrity stylist, intimacy coach, mock date expert, anxiety coach, or anyone else on our team.

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IS THIS YOU?

Does it feel like only the rich and famous get the girl in LA? Like no matter how great a guy you are, you’re always overshadowed by the guy with the Lamborghini and a six-pack from the fifth grade?

Dating in LA can indeed be brutal. Even if you hit it off with someone, you’re up against a parade of other suitors who might catch her eye just as quickly as you did. With so many romantic options, dating in LA can feel like an uncontrollable carousel ride that leaves you dizzy and disheartened.

As a seasoned LA dating coach, I’m here to change that. We’ve helped thousands of men navigate the dating scene and find meaningful connections, even in the competitive LA environment. If you’re ready to score that date and find your ideal partner, let’s make it happen.

JOIN OUR LA COMMUNITY

Our programs feature a lifetime membership that provides unlimited coaching and support, along with a dynamic community of successful LA men who are on a similar journey.

Meet up in person with fellow clients in Los Angeles and forge lifelong friendships.

Partner up with a local accountability buddy or pod to share your journey and hold you accountable to your romantic goals. 

Our programs feature a lifetime membership that provides unlimited coaching and support, along with a dynamic community of successful SoCal men who are on a similar journey.

Meet up in person with fellow clients in Los Angeles and forge lifelong friendships.

Partner up with an LA accountability buddy or pod to share your journey and hold you accountable to your romantic goals. 

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Our Unique Approach

Join the #1 LA dating coaching program for men that’s dedicated to helping you find a long term partner in record time.

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FAQS

The LA dating scene is perhaps the most dynamic in the country. The city is full of an eclectic bunch of singles. You’ll never feel bored or lack fun date ideas. 

That being said LA’s plastic personality and abundance of options means that it’s sometimes difficult to really connect with someone. 

That being said, its sheer volume of singles means that you’re bound to find someone, you just need to know where to look. 

When you MegaDate (date prolifically) as we teach in our program, you’ll be going on at least one date a week. To avoid burnout we advise clients to spend no more than one hour and no more than $20 on first dates. 

With that in mind here are some of our favorite first date ideas for LA: 

  • Farmers’ Market in Santa Monica
  • Culver Hotel Bar
  • Grand Central Market
  • Hit a dog park
  • Griffith Observatory
  • Runyon Canyon Park
  • The Last Bookstore

There are 97 men for every 100 women in LA County. 

In total, there are just under 10 million LA County residents, meaning there are several hundred thousand more women than men in the county. 

 

We’ve coached thousands of men just like you. Men from across the country come to us, however being that we’re from Cali, most of our clients are from the LA and SF areas. 

Learn how LA residents have improved their dating lives since joining our program. 

We’ve worked with men from 18 to 80 years old. You can master dating at any age, as long as you’re willing to put in the hard work and have the right coaches to guide you. Our program is designed to help men of any and all ages, so long as they’re interested in finding a long-term partner.

Using only one method means that you’ll miss out on meeting amazing women. 

 At emlovz we use three methods: warm, cold, and dating apps.

We find clients who do all three reach their goal in 2-9 months as this is the best way to date in 2024. 

We give unlimited profile reviews (at least one a month) as dating is an experiment, you’ll have to optimize as you go. Tweaking a profile every few weeks will help you appeal to the type of women you most want to attract.

We’re not about single sessions – we’re in it for the long haul. That means creating a meaningful and lasting transformation, not just dishing out some quick tips so you can get a couple more Tinder matches.

emlovz isn’t just one person, it’s an entire team of dating consultants and experts working relentlessly towards one goal: finding you an unbelievable partner.

Our dating coaches offer perspectives from both male and female points of view. Our coaches are also millennials as well as Gen-X and Gen-Zers. We know how to help you speak with women regardless of their age, background, or love language. We’re both online dating coaches that will teach you the way of the swipe, but also teach you the IRL dating skills you need to know.

Our program, Dating Decoded includes:

  • Live Weekly Coaching Calls Twice A Week
  • Mock Dates
  • Robust Online Curriculum
  • The emlovz workbook
  • Private Coaching Sessions with anyone on our team
  • Accountability Buddies & Full Social Network

But perhaps most importantly, we won’t abandon you after a set period of time like other coaches. Enrolling in Dating Decoded means you’ll have access to our program (and coaching) for life

We’ve spent over 10 years refining our program to help you go from a dating novice to a confident man so popular with women he’ll have to turn dates away.

Upon joining Dating Decoded, you’ll seamlessly connect with a vibrant social network comprising hundreds of other clients. In addition, you’ll have the opportunity to join an accountability pod in most major metros, where our students gather for real-life meetups and support. As you can see, we’re not just a program….but a massive network of high achievers.

You tell me.

Do you have an ounce of hope and 30 minutes a day to put the work in?

Then yes, dating coaching will work for you.

Our most successful clients are open to trying new things and are coachable.

That may mean stepping out of your comfort zone. It means really listening and absorbing our advice and applying it over and over again.

Our techniques have worked for thousands of men, why wouldn’t they work for you too?

It all starts with a 20-min onboarding call Audrey or another member of our team.

During this call we’re going to get to know each other better and show you how to get the most from our program, Dating Decoded.

That means showing you how to access the weekly strategy sessions, gain access to our online community, and show you how to use our online learning platform.

We use a multi-pronged approach to turn our clients into expert daters.

Here’s how.

Community

No one wants to go through the dating process alone. So don’t. We have a community full of men just like you. To make being single suck less we set students up with an accountability buddy so you can embark on this journey with someone who knows exactly what you’re going through. We’ll also introduce you to clients in your area so you can meet up in person and build an IRL community. Our community is great for sharing wins and losses, bonding, and getting real-time feedback on any dating question you might have.

Online Curriculum

We’ve learned a lot since we became men’s dating coaches 10+ years ago. To effectively teach everything we’ve learned, we created an online learning platform that covers just about every romantic topic under the sun. From how to nail a first date so she says yes to a second, to how to have better sex, if it’s something you’ll face while dating we have a lesson about it. This curriculum is self-paced and constantly being updated and added to.

Mock Dates

Wouldn’t it be amazing if after a date you could ask a woman what she thought and actually receive honest feedback? That’s where our mock dates come in. After a mock date (either online or IRL) you’ll receive feedback on what worked and what needs improvement.

Weekly Strategy Sessions

We know how dynamic and nuanced dating is. That’s why twice a week you’ll have the opportunity to get coaching & feedback directly from me (live, uninterrupted).

Bi-Weekly Man Cave

Our Man Cave event is led every other Thursday evening by our co-founder and coach Thomas Anthony. We know how difficult it is to be a single man. You’ve got a lot to deal with. Sometimes you just want a place to vent and share your frustrations with other men in your shoes. The Man Cave is a space where our clients can simply talk about what’s on their minds. They can share, empathize, and get in touch with other men in the same position. Men’s groups are proven to reduce isolation, frustration, depression, and loneliness.

Dating Decoded VIP is for clients that want a little extra help. When you sign up for our VIP program you’ll receive everything we’ve already touched and more.

Specifically, you’ll receive six 50-minute 1-on-1 sessions that can be used for the following:

  • Mock dates with Brooke or Audrey
  • 1-on-1 coaching with Emyli or Thomas
  • Profile reviews with Audrey, Darshil, or Emyli (me)
  • Style session with Hailey
  • Social media optimization with Mia
  • Confidence session or NYC strategy session with Darshil
  • Anxiety session with Renee
  • Sex & intimacy session with Tilly

     

Use these six sessions in whatever way you think would most benefit you.

That means if you want to go on six mock dates with our dating expert Brooke, go ahead and do so (just don’t fall in love!).

If this is the case, start by watching our program overview video first. For most men, watching this video is all it takes to determine if our program is the right fit for them.

You can also take a look at our brochure.

Click this magic link to schedule your intro call with a member of our team.

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