SEATTLE dating coaching

PROGRAM FOR MEN

Best-in-class dating coaching program for Seattle men looking for a girlfriend, wife, or long-term relationship. 

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WHAT TO EXPECT

Learn how to MegaDate

Go on 1-2 dates a week with Seattle women you're really excited about.

Unlimited Coaching + Curriculum

Best in class data-driven curriculum paired with unlimited coaching plus a vibrant Seattle community.

Lifetime Membership

Get coaching & support until you found your ideal partner, girlfriend, or long term partner.

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WHAT TO EXPECT

Learn how to MegaDate

Go on 1-2 dates a week with Seattle women you're really excited about.

Unlimited Coaching + Curriculum

Best in class data-driven curriculum paired with unlimited coaching plus a vibrant Seattle community.

Lifetime Membership

Get coaching & support until you found your ideal partner, girlfriend, or long term partner.

Book a Call
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WHAT TO EXPECT

Learn how to MegaDate

Go on 1-2 dates a week with Seattle women you're really excited about.

Unlimited Coaching + Curriculum

Best in class data-driven curriculum paired with unlimited coaching plus a vibrant Seattle community.

Lifetime Membership

Get coaching & support until you found your ideal partner, girlfriend, or long term partner.

HOW IT WORKS

Weekly Coaching Calls

Meet with Emyli every week in live coaching calls to strategize on any step of your dating journey.

Online Curriculum & Workbook

Extensive online curriculum that walks you step-by-step through everything you need to know to find the perfect partner for you.

Private CLient Community

Get coaching & support in between the live coaching calls in our private client community.

Private Coaching w/ My Expert Team

Book private sessions with our celebrity stylist, intimacy coach, mock date expert, anxiety coach, or anyone else on our team.

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IS THIS YOU?

Be honest with me: have you watched Sleepless in Seattle more times than you’ve gone on dates in the past couple of years?

We love a hopeless romantic here at emlovz, and that’s why we want to team up with you.

Seattle men often come to us having not been on a date in years, or sometimes, ever. And we get it—dating can be rough. Between navigating an ever-changing dating landscape and trying to meet women online or, heaven forbid, in a bar, it’s tough out there.

As your Seattle dating coach, we’ve helped thousands of men just like you find solutions to modern dating problems. You have complex dating issues, and we have smooth solutions.

Let’s talk about love and how you can find it.

JOIN OUR Seattle COMMUNITY

Our programs feature a lifetime membership that provides unlimited coaching and support, along with a dynamic community of successful Seattle men who are on a similar journey.

Meet up in person with fellow clients in Seattle and forge lifelong friendships.

Partner up with an accountability buddy or pod to share your journey and hold you accountable to your romantic goals. 

Our programs feature a lifetime membership that provides unlimited coaching and support, along with a dynamic community of successful Seattle men who are on a similar journey.

Meet up in person with fellow clients in Seattle and forge lifelong friendships.

Partner up with an accountability buddy or pod to share your journey and hold you accountable to your romantic goals. 

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Our Unique Approach

Join the #1 Seattle dating coaching program for men that’s dedicated to helping you find a long term partner in record time.

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FAQS

When you’re MegaDating (dating prolifically), we recommend going on dates that last no longer than an hour and cost no more than $20. With that in mind, here are some date ideas for Seattle:

  • Free Museum Admissions
  • KEXP Gathering Space
  • Pike Place Market
  • Game Might at Mox Boarding House
  • Watch a Glassblowing Event

Seattle has a single female population of about 135k. That comes out to about 41% of women being single. These numbers might sound good and all but the reality is that King County has the third-highest male-to-female ratio in the country. This means there are about 112 men for every 100 women in the Seattle area. 

If you’re wondering why this is the case, blame the tech boom. Seattle has long been a tech hub and, as such, attracts men from around the globe. Men outnumber ladies in just about every age bracket, but the disparity is particularly noticeable among those in their 30s. 

We’ve coached men from around the country, including dozens from the Seattle area. Read how our students have improved their dating lives here. 

We recommend both. 

When it comes to dating apps, realize that as a man, you and your fellow male suitors heavily outnumber women. As a result women can be choosy with who they decide to match with. To compete you may need to revamp your profile and up your online dating social skills. 

We also teach men how to meet women in person. We show men how to identify their ideal partner and then put them on a crash course to meet and court them in person.

We’ve worked with men from 18 to 80 years old. You can master dating at any age, as long as you’re willing to put in the hard work and have the right coaches to guide you. Our program is designed to help men of any and all ages, so long as they’re interested in finding a long-term partner.

We give unlimited profile reviews (at least one a month) as dating is an experiment, you’ll have to optimize as you go. Tweaking a profile every few weeks will help you appeal to the type of women you most want to attract.

We’re not about single sessions – we’re in it for the long haul. That means creating a meaningful and lasting transformation, not just dishing out some quick tips so you can get a couple more Tinder matches.

You tell me.

Do you have an ounce of hope and 30 minutes a day to put the work in?

Then yes, dating coaching will work for you.

Our most successful clients are open to trying new things and are coachable.

That may mean stepping out of your comfort zone. It means really listening and absorbing our advice and applying it over and over again.

Our techniques have worked for thousands of men, why wouldn’t they work for you too?

emlovz isn’t just one person, it’s an entire team of dating consultants and experts working relentlessly towards one goal: finding you an unbelievable partner.

Our dating coaches offer perspectives from both male and female points of view. Our coaches are also millennials as well as Gen-X and Gen-Zers. We know how to help you speak with women regardless of their age, background, or love language. We’re both online dating coaches that will teach you the way of the swipe, but also teach you the IRL dating skills you need to know.

Our program, Dating Decoded includes:

  • Live Weekly Coaching Calls Twice A Week
  • Mock Dates
  • Robust Online Curriculum
  • The emlovz workbook
  • Private Coaching Sessions with anyone on our team
  • Accountability Buddies & Full Social Network

But perhaps most importantly, we won’t abandon you after a set period of time like other coaches. Enrolling in Dating Decoded means you’ll have access to our program (and coaching) for life

We’ve spent over 10 years refining our program to help you go from a dating novice to a confident man so popular with women he’ll have to turn dates away.

Upon joining Dating Decoded, you’ll seamlessly connect with a vibrant social network comprising hundreds of other clients. In addition, you’ll have the opportunity to join an accountability pod in most major metros, where our students gather for real-life meetups and support. As you can see, we’re not just a program….but a massive network of high achievers.

I’ve been a dating coach for guys ever since I completed my 100-date experiment in 2012. Since then I’ve been strategizing with men like you every week on how they can attract their ideal partner.

It all starts with a 20-min onboarding call Audrey or another member of our team.

During this call we’re going to get to know each other better and show you how to get the most from our program, Dating Decoded.

That means showing you how to access the weekly strategy sessions, gain access to our online community, and show you how to use our online learning platform.

We use a multi-pronged approach to turn our clients into expert daters.

Here’s how.

Community

No one wants to go through the dating process alone. So don’t. We have a community full of men just like you. To make being single suck less we set students up with an accountability buddy so you can embark on this journey with someone who knows exactly what you’re going through. We’ll also introduce you to clients in your area so you can meet up in person and build an IRL community. Our community is great for sharing wins and losses, bonding, and getting real-time feedback on any dating question you might have.

Online Curriculum

We’ve learned a lot since we became men’s dating coaches 10+ years ago. To effectively teach everything we’ve learned, we created an online learning platform that covers just about every romantic topic under the sun. From how to nail a first date so she says yes to a second, to how to have better sex, if it’s something you’ll face while dating we have a lesson about it. This curriculum is self-paced and constantly being updated and added to.

Mock Dates

Wouldn’t it be amazing if after a date you could ask a woman what she thought and actually receive honest feedback? That’s where our mock dates come in. After a mock date (either online or IRL) you’ll receive feedback on what worked and what needs improvement.

Weekly Strategy Sessions

We know how dynamic and nuanced dating is. That’s why twice a week you’ll have the opportunity to get coaching & feedback directly from me (live, uninterrupted).

Bi-Weekly Man Cave

Our Man Cave event is led every other Thursday evening by our co-founder and coach Thomas Anthony. We know how difficult it is to be a single man. You’ve got a lot to deal with. Sometimes you just want a place to vent and share your frustrations with other men in your shoes. The Man Cave is a space where our clients can simply talk about what’s on their minds. They can share, empathize, and get in touch with other men in the same position. Men’s groups are proven to reduce isolation, frustration, depression, and loneliness.

Dating Decoded VIP is for clients that want a little extra help. When you sign up for our VIP program you’ll receive everything we’ve already touched and more.

Specifically, you’ll receive six 50-minute 1-on-1 sessions that can be used for the following:

  • Mock dates with Brooke or Audrey
  • 1-on-1 coaching with Emyli or Thomas
  • Profile reviews with Audrey, Darshil, or Emyli (me)
  • Style session with Hailey
  • Social media optimization with Mia
  • Confidence session or NYC strategy session with Darshil
  • Anxiety session with Renee
  • Sex & intimacy session with Tilly

     

Use these six sessions in whatever way you think would most benefit you.

That means if you want to go on six mock dates with our dating expert Brooke, go ahead and do so (just don’t fall in love!).

If this is the case, start by watching our program overview video first. For most men, watching this video is all it takes to determine if our program is the right fit for them.

You can also take a look at our brochure.

Click this magic link to schedule your intro call with a member of our team.

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