PHOENIX dating coaching
PROGRAM FOR MEN
For Phoenix men looking for a girlfriend, wife, or long-term relationship.
WHAT TO EXPECT
Learn how to MegaDate
Go on 1-2 dates a week with Phoenix women you're really excited about.
Unlimited Coaching + Curriculum
Best in class data-driven curriculum paired with unlimited coaching plus a vibrant Phoenix metro community.
Lifetime Membership
Get coaching & support until you found your ideal partner, girlfriend, or long term partner.
WHAT TO EXPECT
Learn how to MegaDate
Go on 1-2 dates a week with Phoenix women you're really excited about.
Unlimited Coaching + Curriculum
Best in class data-driven curriculum paired with unlimited coaching plus a vibrant Phoenix metro community.
Lifetime Membership
Get coaching & support until you found your ideal partner, girlfriend, or long term partner.
WHAT TO EXPECT
Learn how to MegaDate
Go on 1-2 dates a week with Phoenix women you're really excited about.
Unlimited Coaching + Curriculum
Best in class data-driven curriculum paired with unlimited coaching plus a vibrant Phoenix metro community.
Lifetime Membership
Get coaching & support until you found your ideal partner, girlfriend, or long term partner.
HOW IT WORKS

Weekly Coaching Calls
Meet with Emyli every week in live coaching calls to strategize on any step of your dating journey.

Online Curriculum & Workbook
Extensive online curriculum that walks you step-by-step through everything you need to know to find the perfect partner for you.

Private CLient Community
Get coaching & support in between the live coaching calls in our private client community.

Private Coaching w/ My Expert Team
Book private sessions with our celebrity stylist, intimacy coach, mock date expert, anxiety coach, or anyone else on our team.
IS THIS YOU?
You want to find a partner as hot as Phoenix, but lately, it feels like it’s easier to find a cool breeze in the hot Phoenix desert than it is to find a date.
Dating in Phoenix can be challenging, especially in today’s fast-paced world. The dating scene has shifted as many people now turn to apps rather than in-person social gatherings to meet their partners. Additionally, values and attitudes towards dating have evolved, making it even more complex.
It’s perfectly okay if you haven’t been on a date in a while, and it’s definitely normal if you’ve been ghosted—who hasn’t been?
At emlovz, we understand what you’re going through. As your Phoenix dating coach, we have a community of men just like you navigating the single life. We’ve developed a program designed to give you the modern dating skills you need to find a partner. If our strategies have worked for many of our clients, they’ll work for you too. Let’s make your dating life as vibrant as Phoenix itself.
JOIN OUR PHOENIX COMMUNITY
Our programs feature a lifetime membership that provides unlimited coaching and support, along with a dynamic community of successful Phoenix men who are on a similar journey.
Meet up in person with fellow clients in the Phoenix area and forge lifelong friendships.
Partner up with an accountability buddy or pod to share your journey and hold you accountable to your romantic goals.
Our programs feature a lifetime membership that provides unlimited coaching and support, along with a dynamic community of successful Phoenix men who are on a similar journey.
Meet up in person with fellow clients in the Phoenix metro area and forge lifelong friendships.
Partner up with an accountability buddy or pod to share your journey and hold you accountable to your romantic goals.
COMMUNITY REVIEWS
Our Unique Approach
Join the #1 Phoenix dating coaching program for men that’s dedicated to helping you find a long term partner in record time.
- Lifetime Membership
- Unlimited Coaching
- Community Focused
- Evidence Based Curriculum
- 12+ Year Program
- Men's Club Events
- 11 Expert Coaches
- Third Party Reviews
Other Options
- 5 Week Course
- No Coaching
- On Your Own
- Single Coach's Viewpoint
- Unproven Program
- No Club Events
- 1 or 2 Coaches
- No Third Party Reviews
AS SEEN IN
FAQS
Phoenix is ranked as the 26th-best singles city in the US. Phoenix has a massive metro population, plenty of entertainment opportunities, and year-round dating weather. The major drawback with dating in Phoenix is that depending on where you’re looking, you may just find far more men than women. This means women can be a bit more picky as to who they want to date. Competition may run high but so long as you’ve got a plan you’ll be just fine.
We recommend using at least five dating apps. Our favorites include: Bumble, Hinge, and Tinder. Dating apps are highly competitive as most users are men. To match with ladies online you’ll need a winning online dating strategy.
While we highly recommend using apps, we also teach students how to meet women IRL. By giving you the in-person dating skills you need and showing you where to meet your ideal partner we’ll put you on a collision course with your ideal partner.
Yes. Check out our review here to find men just like you who have been able to find love after having enrolled in our program.
Phoenix has a fairly even gender ratio with about 101 men for every 100 women. It also has an estimated population of 1.6 million. While about 30% of all Phoenix residents are single this isn’t the case in nearby Mesa where there are 123 single men to every 100 single women.
As you’re typically going on first dates with singles who are relative strangers, we recommend going on dates that last no longer than an hour and cost no more than $20. Our favorite Phoenix first date ideas include:
- Hike South Mountain Park
- Free Museum Day: Phoenix Art Museum, Arizona Capitol Museum, etc.
- Steele Indian School Park Picnic
- Visit the Goldfield Ghost Town
- Take a Free Workout Class
- Lucky Strike Bowling
emlovz isn’t just one person, it’s an entire team of dating consultants and experts working relentlessly towards one goal: finding you an unbelievable partner.
Our dating coaches offer perspectives from both male and female points of view. Our coaches are also millennials as well as Gen-X and Gen-Zers. We know how to help you speak with women regardless of their age, background, or love language. We’re both online dating coaches that will teach you the way of the swipe, but also teach you the IRL dating skills you need to know.
Our program, Dating Decoded includes:
- Live Weekly Coaching Calls Twice A Week
- Mock Dates
- Robust Online Curriculum
- The emlovz workbook
- Private Coaching Sessions with anyone on our team
- Accountability Buddies & Full Social Network
But perhaps most importantly, we won’t abandon you after a set period of time like other coaches. Enrolling in Dating Decoded means you’ll have access to our program (and coaching) for life.
We’ve spent over 10 years refining our program to help you go from a dating novice to a confident man so popular with women he’ll have to turn dates away.
Upon joining Dating Decoded, you’ll seamlessly connect with a vibrant social network comprising hundreds of other clients. In addition, you’ll have the opportunity to join an accountability pod in most major metros, where our students gather for real-life meetups and support. As you can see, we’re not just a program….but a massive network of high achievers.
We give unlimited profile reviews (at least one a month) as dating is an experiment, you’ll have to optimize as you go. Tweaking a profile every few weeks will help you appeal to the type of women you most want to attract.
We’re not about single sessions – we’re in it for the long haul. That means creating a meaningful and lasting transformation, not just dishing out some quick tips so you can get a couple more Tinder matches.
We’ve worked with men from 18 to 80 years old. You can master dating at any age, as long as you’re willing to put in the hard work and have the right coaches to guide you. Our program is designed to help men of any and all ages, so long as they’re interested in finding a long-term partner.
I’ve been a dating coach for guys ever since I completed my 100-date experiment in 2012. Since then I’ve been strategizing with men like you every week on how they can attract their ideal partner.
You tell me.
Do you have an ounce of hope and 30 minutes a day to put the work in?
Then yes, dating coaching will work for you.
Our most successful clients are open to trying new things and are coachable.
That may mean stepping out of your comfort zone. It means really listening and absorbing our advice and applying it over and over again.
Our techniques have worked for thousands of men, why wouldn’t they work for you too?
It all starts with a 20-min onboarding call Audrey or another member of our team.
During this call we’re going to get to know each other better and show you how to get the most from our program, Dating Decoded.
That means showing you how to access the weekly strategy sessions, gain access to our online community, and show you how to use our online learning platform.
We use a multi-pronged approach to turn our clients into expert daters.
Here’s how.
Community
No one wants to go through the dating process alone. So don’t. We have a community full of men just like you. To make being single suck less we set students up with an accountability buddy so you can embark on this journey with someone who knows exactly what you’re going through. We’ll also introduce you to clients in your area so you can meet up in person and build an IRL community. Our community is great for sharing wins and losses, bonding, and getting real-time feedback on any dating question you might have.
Online Curriculum
We’ve learned a lot since we became men’s dating coaches 10+ years ago. To effectively teach everything we’ve learned, we created an online learning platform that covers just about every romantic topic under the sun. From how to nail a first date so she says yes to a second, to how to have better sex, if it’s something you’ll face while dating we have a lesson about it. This curriculum is self-paced and constantly being updated and added to.
Mock Dates
Wouldn’t it be amazing if after a date you could ask a woman what she thought and actually receive honest feedback? That’s where our mock dates come in. After a mock date (either online or IRL) you’ll receive feedback on what worked and what needs improvement.
Weekly Strategy Sessions
We know how dynamic and nuanced dating is. That’s why twice a week you’ll have the opportunity to get coaching & feedback directly from me (live, uninterrupted).
Bi-Weekly Man Cave
Our Man Cave event is led every other Thursday evening by our co-founder and coach Thomas Anthony. We know how difficult it is to be a single man. You’ve got a lot to deal with. Sometimes you just want a place to vent and share your frustrations with other men in your shoes. The Man Cave is a space where our clients can simply talk about what’s on their minds. They can share, empathize, and get in touch with other men in the same position. Men’s groups are proven to reduce isolation, frustration, depression, and loneliness.
Dating Decoded VIP is for clients that want a little extra help. When you sign up for our VIP program you’ll receive everything we’ve already touched and more.
Specifically, you’ll receive six 50-minute 1-on-1 sessions that can be used for the following:
- Mock dates with Brooke or Audrey
- 1-on-1 coaching with Emyli or Thomas
- Profile reviews with Audrey, Darshil, or Emyli (me)
- Style session with Hailey
- Social media optimization with Mia
- Confidence session or NYC strategy session with Darshil
- Anxiety session with Renee
- Sex & intimacy session with Tilly
Use these six sessions in whatever way you think would most benefit you.
That means if you want to go on six mock dates with our dating expert Brooke, go ahead and do so (just don’t fall in love!).
If this is the case, start by watching our program overview video first. For most men, watching this video is all it takes to determine if our program is the right fit for them.
You can also take a look at our brochure.
Click this magic link to schedule your intro call with a member of our team.