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How to Change Your Nice Guy Image

Are you looking to change your nice guy image without being a jerk? You’ve come to the right place.

I talk to a lot of guys who feel hampered by their perpetual image as a “nice guy.” And when you subscribe to the old adage about how “nice guys finish last,” the dating world can seem extremely daunting. I’ve even known some guys who tried to act like jerks in hopes that they would attract … Keep Reading

grande-ing dating trend

After a year of cringe-worthy dating trends, we can enter 2019 with a new one that you’ll actually want to get on board with. Originally coined by dating website Plenty of Fish, Grande-ing is a dating trend that involves being thankful for — rather than resentful of — your exes.

The trend is based on the humble message conveyed in singer Ariana Grande’s song, “Thank U, Next.” What was initially expected to be a … Keep Reading

how to not freeze up when talking to a girl

Throughout my tenure as a dating coach, there is one query that tends to come up over and over again — how to not freeze up on a date. Whether you’re outgoing or shy, attraction proves to be a powerful foil when it comes to conversation.

If you go on a date with a woman you really like, you may find yourself at a loss for words. Moreover, your attraction can provoke physical … Keep Reading

afraid to be alone

Is it really love, or are you just afraid to be alone? As a dating coach, I’ve worked extensively with single men as well as those who are in serious relationships. When something feels off about your relationship, it’s important to take inventory of what might be going wrong.

In my experience, I’ve seen many couples suffering due to a fear of being alone. Even when the relationship isn’t working out, when you’re afraid … Keep Reading

getting over a divorce

Getting over a divorce can seem like an intimidating feat. No one anticipates a divorce when they get married. To go from building a life with someone to dividing everything you share (and, in many cases, going through custody trials) requires time to grieve. It is a mentally and emotionally taxing ordeal. Even if the decision to end your marriage in an amicable one, few things are as stressful as a divorce.

But as … Keep Reading

how to get out of your head on a date

There aren’t many situations that cause as much self-analysis as a first or second date. If you’re someone who is desperate to get out of your head on a date, you’re not alone.

The pressure that comes with a date (especially one where you’re with someone you really, really like) can elicit overwhelming anxiety in even the coolest of cucumbers.

Focusing inwardly and allowing jitters to overwhelm you can sabotage a budding romance before it’s … Keep Reading

how to get back into dating after a long relationship

Are you wondering how to get back into dating after a long relationship?

Reentering the dating world can feel extremely intimidating after a long relationship. After becoming extremely comfortable with one person for a long time, you may have even forgotten what it’s like to go on a first date.

But trying to get back into dating doesn’t have to feel equivalent to booking an appointment for a root canal. Take a look below … Keep Reading

giving up on dating

If you’ve been thinking of giving up on dating, you’re not alone. When your experience in the romantic world elicits stress rather than excitement, it gets exhausting. Why continually put yourself out there when all of your efforts prove to be a dead end?

I get it. Years ago, I found myself single for the first time in quite a while. After going from a monogamous relationship to monogamous relationship, I had reached an impasse … Keep Reading