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The #1 Dating Coach in Cedar Rapids IA

The #1 Dating Coach in Cedar Rapids IA

Some in Cedar Rapids would say you have a better chance at finding a Native American artifact than a girlfriend.

Wanna know what I think?

Don’t listen to them.



I’m not just saying this to get your hopes up, but have the number to back up what I’m saying.

There are over 45,000 women over the age of 21 in the City of Five Seasons.

With the average age of marriage for a woman being 26 we can assume about half of those women are married or already in a relationship. So about 22,500 single women over the age of 21 in Cedar.

And of course, if you’re 35 you’re probably not going to date a single woman in her 50s. So let’s assume that half of the single women over 21 are either too young or old to be considered serious suitors. That leaves about 11,250 single women in Cedar Rapids alone for you to get your flirt on with.

And of course, if for some reason you still can’t find someone in your town you can always drive 30 minutes to Iowa City where there are another 10,000 or so single women ready to date.

But let’s not focus on that.

Instead, let’s focus on turning you into the badass that all 11,250 single Iowan women want to date.

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Cedar Rapids Dating Coach

Wait… there’s a dating coach out there that is uniquely positioned to help single men in Cedar Rapids?

Yep.

Meet emlovz.



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It’s true.

There aren’t cornfields full of women in Iowa.

But it’s not exactly about quantity as it is about your ability to quickly find and court highly compatible women. 

That’s what emlovz is all about.

A cool, calm, and collected single man can in quick time date various women, find the one he’s vibing with, and make her his girlfriend.

emlovz specializes in just that. In fact, our whole dating coaching program revolves around that philosophy, the philosophy of MegaDating.

MegaDating

How do you know who has the best corn dog?

Do you go to a single state fair, eat one and declare a winner?

Of course not, you have to hit up a ton of fairs before you can fairly name a winner.

Sorry to compare finding your ideal partner to finding the best corn dog but the process is the same. In order to find the best you need to go shopping. You need to go on a ton of dates, understand who you’re most compatible with, avoid settling, and vibe with a ton of women in order to find your best partner.

Here at emlovz we teach you not just how to score a date and get a girlfriend, but how to score a plethora of dates and score the best girlfriend.  



You do this by MegaDating — dating various women at once.

But what does various women really look like?

Our student Naeem says that once he started MegaDating he went on 31 dates over 3-4 months.

That’s a ton of women!

Prior to enrolling in our program, Dating Decoded he went on 4 dates in 20 years.

That’s the power of MegaDating.

But where are you going to find all these women?

At your new Cedar Rapids dating coach we don’t encourage you to hit the bars and attend every ladies’ night you can.

Instead, think of where your ideal woman is likely to spend her time. Then frequent those places.

That means if you’re a biker join a FB or Meetup hiking group in your area.



If you love being fit join a gym that has group classes and meet women in your group.

It’s as simple as putting yourself (physically and mentally) in a position to succeed.

But nowadays you don’t have to meet women IRL as a first point of contact, you can do that at home and probably should.

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As you can see, meeting women online is the no. 1 way to meet people nowadays.

A Stanford study found that 39% of all new relationships in 2017 started online and that number is only increasing.

If you’re serious about meeting a lovely woman you best put yourself off and online.

But online dating is uber-competitive.

That’s why we teach men how to build profiles that outcompete 90% of men in their age bracket.

Crafting The Perfect Profile

Apps like Tinder and Bumble are must-downloads if you want to find someone online.

The issue is they’re also super competitive.

Tinder has 9 men for every 1 woman. Tinder’s feminist sister Bumble has 7 male for every 3 female users.



That scarcity of females means women can be super selective of who they swipe right on, making these apps more competitive than meeting a woman at a farmer’s convention.

But don’t fret!

We have the special sauce that will see you racking up matches left and right.

Look the reality is that dating apps are online sausage fests, but the other reality is that most profiles are poorly constructed.

Most guys have no idea what they’re doing.

They post three photos, one is a bathroom selfie, a second is a group shot with 12 other men in a dank bar, and the third is this…

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Men struggle on dating apps because they all make the same mistakes.

We know what works and what you need to avoid at all costs.

Via our online curriculum, two weekly live coaching sessions, and profile reviews we’ll teach you how to craft the perfect profile.

If you want to create a bomb profile right now heed these tips:

  • First photo should be a clear headshot
  • GQ shots are a must (dress to impress, post shots from the most recent wedding you attended)
  • Travel pics always get liked
  • If you have a dog, show her off, pics with dogs are proven to get more likes
  • Hobby pics are encouraged, show her what you’re into and that you’re more than a pretty smile
  • Oh yeah, and smile!

The last thing to remember is to write a bio!

Dating apps don’t provide much space to express who we are. Take advantage of every pixel of white space to show her who you are. Write about your hobbies and show you have enough of a personality to swipe right on, that’s it.



Here’s an example.

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MegaMessaging

Having that little Tinder jingle alert you that you have a match is a great feeling. But online dating is for dating not for a quick confidence bump.

After you’ve scored a match it’s time to shoot her a message.

As you can imagine, women get a ton of messages. The good news is that most aren’t worth responding to.

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95% of women will have inboxes identical to this one.

Their message queue is full of one-word messages, usually in the form of hey.

If you’ve ever sent a similar message and have wondered why you didn’t get a response, don’t.

Women get dozens of messages every day on dating apps. She’s only going to respond to the best one or two messages. Hey doesn’t make you stand out.

Instead, comment or ask her a question about her profile. Ideally, comment or make known that you two have something in common. Maybe you both love jogging, football, or billiards.

Comment on that similarity and see where things go.



Continue to revolve the conversation around topics she’s interested in. Try to end each response with a question.

After you’ve built a bond it’s time to pop the question. Ask her out — it’s something we teach in high detail in our coaching program.

Dating Blueprint

The first three dates are the most important.

These are the most fragile and beautiful dates of your new situationship.

Make sure everything goes to plan by, well, having a plan — a good one at that.

As your new Cedar Rapids dating coach we show you how to plan amazing first, second, and third dates.

We go into it in more depth in our program, but here is how to plan the first three dates in a nutshell:

First Dates – $20 limit and no more than one hour (If you’re MegaDating you don’t want to spend anymore time or money on strangers)

Second Dates – Active and 100% free (Weeds out women dating you for the wrong reasons and active dates are just more fun)

Third Dates – Do something fancy! Go see a show, eat fancy, and show her how much you care about her

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How You’ll Learn

At emlovz we have a learning style that suits every single man in Cedar Rapids.

Our Online Curriculum is full of dozens of hours of content covering everything from how to have a better IRL conversation to how to touch a girl to heat things up. Our online curriculum is self-paced and always updated. We recently teamed up with sexy coach Tilly Storm to add lessons on female anatomy, foreplay, and how to have better sex.

We realize dating is a highly personalized and complex activity. That’s why we offer two Weekly Live Coaching Sessions with our coaches. It’s here that we’ll present dating strategies and dive deeper as we answer your questions. Our co-founder Thomas Anthony also leads the Man Cave once a month which is only open to students (no females allowed) where guys can just vent and talk about both dating wins and losses in a supportive environment.



No one wants to go through dating alone. When you join Dating Decoded you don’t have to. Our Online Community is full of guys in your exact position. If you want to bond with other guys, find an accountability buddy, or get burning questions answered this is the place to do it. Students are always dropping in screenshots of texts and strategizing on how to send the best response.

You can learn all you want from our program but if you’re not practicing what you learn it’s all for naught. Students have the chance to practice what they’ve learned on a Mock Date with our specialists Brooke and Audrey. Ever wanted to ask a woman what you did right and wrong after a date? Here’s your chance!

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Dating Decoded VIP

Some students want a bit more 1-on-1 time with our team.

They feel the lifetime access to the Online Curriculum, Online Community, and Strategy Sessions is great but want to improve their dating chops even faster.

For these eager men we offer six 50-minute sessions that can be used in the following ways:

  • 1-on-1 in-depth profile review
  • Mock dates with our specialists
  • Meal planning and training routine with Aundrea
  • Personal style session with Hailey
  • SM optimization with Mia
  • 1-on-1 coaching with yours truly

Want To Date This Friday?

As your Cedar Rapids dating coach I’m telling you with authority that there are plenty of women out there worth dating, just as Naeem who went on 31 dates in 3 months!

Book a Zoom call now so we can talk about your dating goals and how emlovz can help you achieve them!

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