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she broke my heart and then left me

“She broke my heart and then left me — what should I do now?” It pains me to hear this question. And, as a dating coach, it’s a question I receive often. Heartbreak is a tragic inevitability in life. Unless you’re one of the lucky few, a girlfriend or boyfriend will break your heart at some point.

I’ve been through it. You have likely been through it. Most of my male clients have experienced … Keep Reading

how to tell your best friend you like her (or in love with her)

Figuring out how to tell your best friend you love her (or like her) is tricky territory. This isn’t just some random girl you met online or at a bar. When you realize you want to take a friendship to a romantic level, you may worry that:

  • Your confession will make the relationship take a turn for the worse.
  • You will lose your friend.
  • You will get rejected.

It’s understandable that you’re worried … Keep Reading

she doesn't want a relationship but she likes me

“She doesn’t want a relationship but she likes me…what should I do?”

Oh boy, is that question a doozy. And the thing is, it’s not at all uncommon. As a dating coach, I chat with men who have this problem quite often. It can be a frustrating and disheartening situation. You meet a great girl that you have a romantic chemistry with and you want to pursue a relationship with her. She, on the … Keep Reading

dating a woman with kids

Dating a woman with kids comes with several pros and cons. Many people balk at the idea of dating a woman with kids, but nowadays it is more and more likely that you will build a connection with a single parent.

According to statistics from the U.S. Census Bureau, millions of children are being raised in single-family homes and a majority of those homes are being headed by the mother.

Aside from unwed mothers, … Keep Reading

comparing your relationship to others

Comparing our lives to others is something we do a lot. Be it academic accomplishments or something else, we compare pretty much everything to others. But when it comes to the person you’re involved with, it’s important to remember that comparing your relationship to others is never a good idea.

In relationships, we can compare our relationship to others in two ways:

  • We compare the relationship to someone else’s.
  • We compare it to a past
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how to know if she's the one

A lot of men I’ve spoken with have inspired me to write this article on how to know if she’s the one. In fact, this type of question encompasses many individuals’ experience in the dating world because, ultimately, that’s what we hope to find.

But figuring out whether someone is the one isn’t so simple. A lot of time, the infatuation that accompanies the “honeymoon phase” of a relationship can make you believe someone is … Keep Reading

how to keep your girlfriend by having her invest in you

If you want to keep your girlfriend, and not be cast upon the broken-hearted heap of lovers she’s left behind, you must get her invested in your relationship.

It doesn’t matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, or how funny you are. If she doesn’t have something invested in you (and the relationship), preferably QUITE A LOT invested, she’ll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more … Keep Reading

why did she leave me

Breakups and rejections are never easy, whether someone leaves you after you have been dating for more than a year, a few months, or even if you’ve only just started seeing somebody you really like. Along with advising my clients on how to find success in the dating world, I also have plenty of men come to me with this question: “Why did she leave me?”

When a girlfriend or girl you have been seeing Keep Reading