Dating Coaching Program for Men

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    Signature Program: What to Expect.

    A private, one-on-one program for men who want to get better at dating and eventually find a girlfriend. The goal of the Signature Program is to get you MegaDating fast! MegaDating is my unique philosophy to dating. I believe it helps men maintain leverage and avoid settling for mediocre love. The definition of MegaDating is ‘to date multiple women at the same time to diffuse energy and increase confidence.’

    MegaDating is your first step towards getting more dates with women you’re REALLY excited about. It’s your first step to STOP settling for women you’re not excited about so you never have to experience divorce or dissatisfaction in love.

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    Hi,
    I’m Emyli.

    What to Expect..

    Best-in-class dating coaching program for men who want to master every facet of dating in order to find a girlfriend, wife, or long-term relationship.

    I'll teach you how to fill up your dating funnel so you can go on 1-2+ dates each week (with women you're really excited about), which will help you find your forever person, fast.

    What that means for you, is you’ll always have a full calendar of possible candidates. So no longer are you going to be searching in self help books, apps, or blogs to piece together a dating strategy.

    MegaDating is our proprietary dating philosophy that we’ve used with hundreds of guys to help them find the one. This strategy helps you to diffuse your energy, increase your confidence, and avoid getting ghosted, friendzoned, or worse… settling for the wrong woman.

    Don't see a time that works for you? Fill this out and we'll get back to you asap.

    What to Expect..

    Best-in-class dating coaching program for men who want to master every facet of dating in order to find a girlfriend, wife, or long-term relationship.

    I'll teach you how to fill up your dating funnel so you can go on 1-2+ dates each week (with women you're really excited about), which will help you find your forever person, fast.

    What that means for you, is you’ll always have a full calendar of possible candidates. So no longer are you going to be searching in self help books, apps, or blogs to piece together a dating strategy.

    MegaDating is our proprietary dating philosophy that we’ve used with hundreds of guys to help them find the one. This strategy helps you to diffuse your energy, increase your confidence, and avoid getting ghosted, friendzoned, or worse… settling for the wrong woman.

    How I Can Help You

    I’m here to teach, motivate, and strategize with you.

    Through our free content, or my paid 1-on-1 coaching program - we’re here to help you reach your dating and interpersonal goals.

    Whether you’re new to dating, looking for love, a marriage, or a simple companion - I’m here to help you reach the highest levels of your potential, even if you don’t believe you can!

    With Love,

    Is This You?

    Are you struggling to get women to respond to your messages on dating apps? Having trouble getting dates offline? Does it feel like it’s impossible to get any dates at all? Are you finding yourself repeatedly in the friend zone with women you’re interested in dating?

    Do you find yourself wondering if you could do better than the women you’ve been going on dates with? Are you confused about how to even attract the type of women you’re REALLY interested in? Perhaps you’re tired of the dating scene and ready to find your wife or life-partner once and for all? Maybe you’re starting to think you can’t attract beautiful women because of your background.

    Well, I’m here to tell you that you deserve the perfect partner and you can find and attract the woman of your dreams–and we can help you do it.

    How The Services Work

    In order to find you the woman of your dreams, I’m going to give you lifetime access to our twice weekly coaching calls, extensive online curriculum, and private client-only community. Plus, you'll have access to mock dates, private profile reviews, style sessions, personal coaching sessions, & much more.

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    Last April after a year and a half of bad dates and experiences, I came to a point where I was ready to throw in the towel online dating. I had success a decade ago when the process was slower and simpler.

    Upon my divorce, I found myself into a different dating world. I am now in a happy relationship and a lot of that I owe to the course that I took with emlovz.

    If you are skeptical, I don’t blame you. I have studied dating advice for about two decades and found that most of it is bad. I did not want to hire someone for that exact reason: lack of trust. I recommend that if you are interested, at least schedule a consultation with Emyli to make up your own mind. I also found that this program was a lot more affordable. Many of the other dating coaches I found seemed to only cater to the ultra rich.

    Some of the benefits that I found working with her is that she will push you to go out and be active. She is not afraid to brainstorm and offer constructive criticism. Unlike many of the other programs I’ve taken, I feel like Em actually cared about my success and was willing to tailor her program to my needs.

    The only warning I have is that you need to give the program time to work. It didn’t happen over night, but after time I was able to diagnose some dating issues and look at dating and relationships a little differently. Less than a year ago, I was ready to give up. Now I am in the happiest relationship of my life. The mind is the trickiest thing to overcome.

    emlovz graduate
    Coaching Client

    Hi Em! It’s been a few months since I finished the program and I thought I would give you an update. Recently I had a short relationship with a woman I met on Tinder that went to my college.

    We recently decided to not go further because she has been incredibly busy and we were not certain if we really were committed for a long term relationship.

    Nonetheless, it was a great learning experience and it definitely improved my confidence with women going forward. The skills that I learned in the course definitely helped me, it would not have been possible without it.

    Since then I have taken a short break from dating since I will be graduating in May. I am moving back to Long Island to take a gap year, and I plan on applying to law school and hopefully go away for grad school, particularly Albany or Boston.

    I am also gonna reach out to some of the guys I met in the program so I can have some help getting used to dating in the real world. 

    Overall, things are going well and while I still have some anxiety about dating, I am definitely in a much better place then I was when I first started the program.

    Nick
    Coaching Client

    I had just gotten divorced, I was petrified of dating, and was already in a relationship that was not good for me. I was so averse to the entire idea of dating that I was ready to entirely give up and join a monastery.

    I started looking around for dating consultants, and found Emlovz. It was a lot of money – but not nearly as costly as a bad relationship. At first I was skeptical that the concept of “megadating” was for me. My idea of dating was more geared toward serious relationships, the idea of having many of them was scary.

    Emyli was patient and her lesson plans helped me to zero in on the attributes that I was looking for in a romantic partner. Her materials were sound and she was flexible – focusing on the areas where I had the most questions. Meeting virtually was super convenient – since I live in the South Bay and served the purpose well. 

    She helped me with everything from dating photos and apps to scripts for the dates and how to narrow the list of candidates. Her dating formulas for the first, second and third dates helped me to see how it was easy to meet people through the apps and evaluate them without risking a lot of time, money, or hurt feelings……

    In the end, I ended up evaluating 15 romantic partners (which is more than I ever thought I would) before I found someone that I am quite happy with. With all of the comparison points, it was easy for me to decide which person was the best fit for me and I am truly happy with the result.

    I highly recommend her services – it was highly educational and effective!

    John M.
    Coaching Client

    I met Em (virtually) after stumbling across her Instagram page…I had just ended a coach/client relationship that was very disappointing. I booked a VERY inexpensive call with her and was immediately impressed. I know that we went WAY over the normal time allotment for such calls, but Em really LISTENED.

    Instead of the typical hard sell you would normally get on such a call, she listened…shared her own experiences and struggles…offered advice (even recommending services totally unrelated to the ones she offers) and just generally seemed like my friend. In fact, that was the overwhelming takeaway i had from that first call–Em immediately felt like my friend…a friend who has your best interests…your REAL best interests…at heart.

    I am a difficult student…that’s just a fact. And even after certain breakthroughs, I REMAIN a difficult student. But Em never threw her hands up and said enough. Oh she threw down the gauntlet a few times when I needed it…and held her ground…she’s definitely not a pushover. But she never screamed ENOUGH, even though that’s what I am internally hardwired to try to illicit. And because she never has said ENOUGH to me, I am eternally grateful.

    I think Em has great powers of deduction and discernment…she knew from the beginning that i was going to be difficult and need her acceptance…and she freely gave it, even when I tried my damndest to throw it back.

    Folks, I could talk a lot about Em and her megadating strategy (brilliant) or her detailed instructions on formulating your dating profile (has made a huge difference for me and my success in dating) or countless other areas where her tireless work and insight make her classes and consultation TOTALLY worth your time and money…but what really makes Em worth it is just Em being Em…one of the finest people I know and one of my greatest (virtual) friends.

    Russ J.
    Coaching Client

    Thank you for taking me in the program. I’ve seen improvement, not only in my dates but also I feel better about myself. When we had the first assessment, I was broken, felt unlovable, hopeless, and rejected. 

    You believed in me, and that’s what made me be consistent and believe in myself.

    When you took me in the program I felt hopeful, lovable, and accepted.

    You rescued me, you are my hero.

    Diego
    Coaching Client

    The action plan we created together during my first session really paid off! You helped me realize that I had to love myself first and really accept my own unique style.

    Well here I am 12 months later, not only engaged (my original goal) but I just got married to the most amazing, beautiful woman!!! Thank you so much for everything. You might not always realize how much impact your words may have but they sure made a difference for me. 

    Thank you!

    Saad
    Coaching Client

    Thank you so much, Emyli, for your time, care, concern and insights over the last number of months. It has been a real pleasure chatting with you. I have very much enjoyed our time together.

    Hopefully I will demonstrate that I have learned a few things from our virtual talks, the relationship academy lessons and your weekly emails.

    Justin K.
    Coaching Client

    I’d like to reiterate that your course is invaluable. After 13 messages I got 5 replies, 3 dates on the book, and 2 phone numbers.

    All from 2 days of texting. This is me being 4 months out of practice!

    Thank you!!!!!!

    Charles H.
    Coaching Client

    Emyli was worth every penny. If all I learned from her were the first two lessons…… it would be worth every penny I paid for the 12-week course.

    Specifically, her take on what photos you NEED on your profile and how to message girls is incredibly powerful. You also learn how to gauge if they are the right photos and get real responses and ratings on your pics.

    I tried online dating twice before and got zero response from the attractive women. Even when I could get numbers and dates in real life from much better matches. Online, it is a bit of a game. It doesn’t really matter who you are in real life…..you have to know how to express that online, and it is not always intuitive.

    Szilard S.
    Coaching Client

    I’m so glad I went through your program. While I didn’t find the woman of my dreams in your program, the experience set me up for success when I did meet her.

    If I hadn’t dated all those women, I would have been stumbling to date my now fiancé. She also wouldn’t have stood out as the exceptionally rare gem that she is if I hadn’t had all those experiences, both good and bad!

    Thank you for putting together such an amazing playbook. There’s something magical that happens when a good woman is in your corner.

    Jim P, Engaged 2021
    Coaching Client

    FAQ

    The most successful athletes in the world had coaches by their side the entire way. Maybe they didn’t need the help. I suppose you could argue that point. But if that’s true, then why were the coaches there every step of the way? 
     
    Consider baseball. Professional baseball players have a variety of coaches. There’s hitting coaches, pitching coaches, base-stealing coaches, infield coaches, and outfield coaches. Aren’t these professional athletes already at the top of their game? Maybe. So what’s the point of having so many coaches?
     
    The answer is that raw talent is not the same as a refined skill. Raw, undeveloped talent, often fails to deliver positive outcomes. It’s like having a tool in your tool belt that could do the job if you only knew how to operate it. Dating coaching is very similar. 
     
    The coaching process takes any under-developed interpersonal skills and optimizes them so you can crush your dating goals. Coaching also helps to identify weaknesses and create strategies for overcoming the barriers that have held you back from love in the past.

    Absolutely. What if ninety days from now, you were dating several women (or even in a very new relationship) that you were really excited about? What is the likelihood you’ll get there if you base the next three months on the last three months? If you see a clear vision of a very different future relationship in the next ninety days, then what is your plan to get there? A dating coach can help you build a step-by-step strategy to reach your goals. 

    Finding real love takes time and effort. Think about how much time you put in to finding your current job or graduating from college. Would you consider either of those things more or less important than finding true love?

    Without being taught how to date in school, how can you know that you’re doing a good job? How can you ensure that your dating formula is set up correctly? That the steps you’re following now are leading you down the path to Mrs. Right? Can you be sure? Did you have strong role models growing up? I know I didn’t, and I would not have found love without a specific, measurable, achievable, realistic, and timely dating plan.
     
    Wouldn’t you agree that the process of attracting the perfect person, keeping the relationship healthy, and ensuring that you don’t settle for less than you deserve, takes time, dedication, and hard work?

    Yes. My private Signature Program clients can send me two emails per week or a total of 24 emails throughout the program. My group coaching clients are given access to the emlovz Slack channel. That way, if questions arise between sessions, you’re covered.

    I offer a variety of in-person options for my Signature Program clients, including mock-dates, weekly coaching sessions, and an eight-hour 1-on-1 workshop. My fees adjust for these in-person options – and I’m happy to explain in further detail during our introductory New Client Session. Keep in mind that I live/work in San Francisco, so if you’re not local, you’ll need to plan on flying into SF to meet me.

    Yes, we will train on messaging in-depth and craft messages to women together. 

    Here’s my internal reviews page where you can read what some of my previous clients have to say about working with me. 

    I’ve worked with men from 18 to 80 years old. You can master dating at any age. As long as you’re willing to put in the hard work, I’m happy to be your coach, and I’m confident I can help.

    For best-case results, I recommend completing the Signature Program in three months. If you’re in a hurry, I’m happy to discuss creating a custom program with you during our New Client Session. Adding matchmaking to your Signature program is also a solution. 

    I work with clients who understand the value of having someone in their corner to push them, to provide a practical dating framework, and to share insights into what’s happening with particular partners and situations while they are on their dating journey. Similar to sports coaches, who exist most importantly at the elite athletic level, I work with people who understand that to be the best and attract the best, they must continually push the envelope to improve.

    For you to find real, lasting love, you have to prioritize the learning of how to find and keep love. You have to spend time and energy on it. You have to confront uncomfortable obstacles and step outside your comfort zone. 

    While everyone feels committed on January 1st, most lose their motivation by January 21st. The same is true in coaching. You are very likely to experience the same phenomenon. So, what is going to guarantee that you get through it and achieve real, lasting success in love? Your commitment to yourself.

    When you commit to changing your life, you need to protect yourself from failure when the going gets tough. Often, making a financial investment in yourself that is uncomfortable, can help to compel you to see yourself through obstacles to ensure your return on investment.

    Do it anyway. It is scary to change and grow. But being alone, or in another toxic relationship that leads to divorce, is a lot more frightening. Be more afraid of what will happen to you if you don’t make a change. How long have you been trying to solve this problem on your own? What happens if you don’t solve it a year from now? Three years from now? Five years from now? How long will you keep repeating the same patterns that led you here? 
     
    It is when you give yourself no other choice but to move forward, directly through the fear, that you make the most significant transformations. When you decide you’re going to stop avoiding that fear because you can’t get around it, you have to go straight through the fire. Yes, it may be harder than anything you’ve ever done, but do it anyway. Begin today, let’s crush your dating goals together because love is worth it, I promise. 

    Henry Ford said this, “Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t, you’re right.”

    If you’re going to fail, then I don’t want to work with you. But if you have even a glimmer of hope, then I can help. I work with men who crave love so much that they can’t imagine a life without it, and they won’t quit until they have it. Â