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What The Best Dating App of 2024 Is According To Dating Coaches

What The Best Dating App of 2024 Is According To Dating Coaches

Everyone wants to meet their future spouse at the supermarket. Or at the arboretum. Or the music festival.

We incessantly romanticize about how the universe will look favorably upon us and give us the luck we need to unexpectedly bump into our soul mate.

It’s a cute fantasy.



The thing is… it’s propaganda.

I mean, sure, it’s perfectly possible for you to meet your next partner at yoga class, but odds are you won’t.

According to a study conducted by eHarmony and London’s Imperial College Business School, researchers found that:

“Around a third (32%) of relationships started between 2015 and 2019 started online, compared to only 19% between 2005 and 2014.”

However, they’re not the only ones who found that dating apps are the most popular way to meet a significant other. A 2017 Stanford study found similar results. A 2017 survey of American adults found that:

“…about 39 percent of heterosexual couples reported meeting their partner online, compared to 22 percent in 2009.”

So maybe it’s time to stop hanging around bars during ladies-night and instead work those fingers muscles by swiping right.

According to Pew Research, there’s a pretty good chance your next girlfriend is on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, or another of the many dating apps out there. And let’s be serious, if Pew says it’s true, it probably is.

best dating appsBut with a myriad of dating apps out there, how are you to know which one you should be on?

To find out, I asked three emlovz dating coaches and one former emlovz coach what the best dating app of 2024 is.

Their responses were all kind of the same, but instead of stealing their shine, I’ll just let them tell you who the winner is.

First up is emlovz’s co-founder, Emyli…

She’s been a major fan of Hinge for a while now.

 

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Hinge because it allows you to message without matching and has a large following (lots of people on it). I recommend it because it’s the #1 source of dates for my coaching students. Being able to message gives them full control over how many messages they send, which ultimately equates to being able to predict the number of dates they go on.

The second best app is Bumble because it has the most attractive users. Men don’t always love it though because women don’t often message at all, so even if you match, it’s rare to get into messaging with a woman on Bumble. But it’s important to diversify your outreach and seeing as how the most attractive singles are on Bumble, it’s the second best app in my opinion.

Let’s talk about these two apps for a second.

The first is Hinge.

hinge best dating app

Hinge claims to be the only dating app “designed to be deleted.”

By this, they mean that their goal is to actually hook you on love rather than hook you on the chase.

Other apps are built to addict their users whereas Hinge (argues) that it’s built to find love rather than increase its user base. Whether you believe them or not they back up this claim in their features.

Some Hinge highlights include:

— Exhaustive filter preferences (filter users by religion, politics, drug habits, height, education, etc.)

— Users have to answer at least 3 prompts meaning that you can’t get away with not writing a bio like you would on Tinder

— Only 10 likes a day, cause Hinge doesn’t think dating should be your only hobby

— Nudge feature that reminds users to reply to messages

— Hinge has found that “3 out of 4 first dates would like to see each other again”



Video prompts, audio prompt responses, and polls are added to profile to further humanize the user

Sign up for Hinge if you’re looking to get serious about a relationship. Most users that are done with Tinder graduate to Hinge.

Our next dating coach & matchmaker is Jackie…

Jackie’s a millennial and former emlovz coach that knows her way around a dating app or two. She recommends two apps you’ve probably heard of to all her clients.

Hinge – Men can like a photo or comment, without matching with a girl, so she may see it and change her mind if she hadn’t already matched with him. “Most Compatible” matches are recommended, which may persuade a date.

Bumble – Best quality matches currently. Women have to reach out first, so it’s more likely that you will secure a date if you begin talking.

Shocker.

Look, Hinge reigns supreme.

As Jackie says the ability to like or comment on a photo is massive. It gives guys a chance to showcase their character and humanize themselves before even matching. Not only this but it uses an award-winning algorithm to find suitors that are hyper-compatible.

emlovz co-founder, Thomas…

Tom is a co-founder of emlovz and provides dating strategies and insight from a male’s perspective.

So you might think he’d choose an app like Tinder or The League.

Nope.

Instead, Tom’s choice for the best dating app of 2024 is Bumble.



bumble best dating app

Bumble was founded by Whitney Wolfe (as seen above) after she had already co-founded Tinder.

She left to found a feminist dating app that would be everything that Tinder isn’t — at least in name. Ya see, Wolfe was sexually harassed by Tinder employees and actually sued the company. It was this experience that inspired the ethos and many female-first features of Bumble.

Tom likes that app because the milieu is of a higher quality than you’d find on other apps.

The singles on Bumble are slightly older than Tinder users (though many use both apps), and more self-aware, know what they want, and are willing to tell you about it.

Tom also likes Bumble because it offers a wealth of information to users. It allows users to highlight their personality and humanize themselves so they’re not just another card in a deck of thousands. Men and women also link to their IGs or provide enough info so that finding their IG is a breeze.

Why is that important, though?

If you’re strategic, a single person can slowly build up their Instagram and eventually, in a slow roll, build up a new dating funnel from Instagram.

We’ll teach male and female students not only how to optimize their Bumble account but also how to optimize their IG account so they can begin to attract women on one of the most used social media apps of them all.

NOTE: As you’re probably aware Bumble is most known for its messaging dynamic. Unlike just about every other app on the market, with Bumble, women are in control and must message first.

However, that isn’t the app’s only notable feature.

Bumble Highlights

— Women message first



— Matches expire after 24 hours if the conversation hasn’t been initiated

— More free matches than most other apps

— Travel mode

Spotlight

— SuperSwipes

— Community guidelines that take a stand against ghosting, standing up dates, or doxxing

— Using AI to enhance profiles by way of photos manipulation or auto-generated text is forbidden

— Actively combats spam and scam accounts

Similar to Hinge, most Tinder users will find their way to Bumble after they’re tired of chasing false leads.

Now let’s hear from our last dating coach, Audrey…

Audrey recommends an app that you’ve definitely heard of before.

That’s right folks, that means four swipes right for Hinge.

Every single guy and girl should be on Hinge.

I have by far heard the most success stories from this app and I believe its layout allows people to find true connections and romance. I think people are encouraged to be their most genuine and unique on Hinge rather than trying to come off as the most attractive guy/girl in the world.

Because you can respond to different prompts and photos, people are able to connect and relate to one another on the most mundane and random things. I think those simple connections are what spark fun relationships.

Well, there you have it folks.



When it comes to dating apps, Hinge is the winner.

Best Dating App of 2024: Hinge

What Now?

I think you know what to do now. Download Hinge and get your flirt on.

But what if you don’t know how to get the most from dating apps?

Seeing as how online dating is the most common way to meet your romantic partner, that’d be an issue.

Luckily I have a solution.

Dating Decoded

We teach our students the shortcut to finding their ideal match by MegaDating. MegaDating is our dating philosophy and it shapes everything we teach here at emlovz. Simply put MegaDating is dating prolifically with the specific goal of going on 20 dates in 90 days.

This will give you ample potential partners to compare and contrast so you can refine not only your dating skills but also who your ideal partner is.

To teach you how to quickly find a highly compatible partner in just weeks and become the most eligible single in town you’ll team up with romantic experts, each skilled in their own unique area to support you.

Our Team

  • Emyli, co-founder, curriculum developer, head coach, and I host coaching sessions every week
  • Thomas, co-founder, and coach. He’ll lead the biweekly Man Cave event where men come together to talk dating, bond with one another, and support other single men
  • Brooke, and Audrey are mock date specialists for men. Go on a practice date with them (and receive feedback) before your next date
  • Darshil is our mock date coach for women. Go on a practice date with them (and receive feedback) before your next date
  • Renee is our anxiety dating coach. As a licensed therapist she knows the steps needed to turn you into a cool, calm, and collected dater
  • Hailey is your new stylist. She’s worked with celebs from every industry and is now about to raid your closet
  • Tilly is our holistic sex & intimacy coach. She’ll help you get the most out of your sex life so you and your partner are happier between the sheets
  • Mia is our social media expert. Revamp your Facebook and Instagram profiles with her help and start meeting singles online

Our Community

And look, we realize that the single life can be difficult. If accepted into our coaching program, Dating Decoded, you’d be joining a community of supportive singles and coaches who are there to listen, support, and encourage you as you navigate the single life.
Our program offers every student a lifetime membership (as if you’ll need it) so the support won’t stop until you’ve found your ideal partner.
If you’re ready to find your forever partner, book a Zoom session with our team today. Together we’ll talk about your dating history, goals and show you how our program, Dating Decoded, can help you find your ideal partner.
Learn how our students have already improved their dating lives.

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